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Common and Deadly Decision Traps

By Arman Darini · 17 years ago

Good to be connecting with you again. Our topic for today is common and deadly decision traps, and how to avoid them. Recall that in the previous article we spoke about the structure of extraordinary ...

Extraordinary Decision Making

By Arman Darini · 17 years ago

All right, good to be talking with you again. Today we'll take a deep dive inside THE single most important ability you have as a human being. If you are poor in this area, then... ...

Psychology of Space

By Arman Darini · 17 years ago

I remember when first learning about psychology of space (often called psychogeography or proxemics) in an NLP training, I was amazed to discover that the space around my body is not symmetrical. Ok, the differences ...

First Key to Self Mastery: Response-Ability

By Arman Darini · 17 years ago

In the previous article I showed how you can skillfully communicate negative emotions in a way that deepens your relationships, instead of creating havoc as it usually happens. Today I am going to focus on ...

Don't Shoot the Messenger

By Arman Darini · 17 years ago

“Whenever you have truth it must be given with love, or the message and the messenger will be rejected,” - Mahatma Gandhi. In the previous article I described relationship anchoring - how a few seemingly ...

Flattery for Self Development

By Arman Darini · 17 years ago

“Flattery is telling the other person precisely what he thinks about himself," - Dale Carnegie. The path of personal growth has three stations that are visited repeatedly on a spiral path from now to your ...

Easy Memory Techniques for Remembering Names

By Arman Darini · 17 years ago

The world memory champion can memorize 170 names and faces in 15 minutes. Yet many people cannot recall a single name thirty seconds after hearing it. If we stay conservative for a moment and assume ...

Eyes Technique for Emotional Intelligence

By Arman Darini · 17 years ago

Do you ever get stuck in a mental rut? Is there some state of mind that visits you occasionally and you have a hard time getting out of it? It might be sadness, melancholy, anxiety, ...