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Divorce Recovery and Recovery Time ' 3 Months? 3 Years? 3 Decades? ' How Long Will It Take?
By Jerald Young · 17 years ago
Divorce recovery takes time. This is a fact of divorce. The real question is, "How long must I endure the upset and pain of adjusting to my divorce?" While specific time predictions are not possible, ...
Divorce Recovery & Resistance to Change - How to Sabotage Your Divorce Recovery without Even Trying
By Jerald Young · 17 years ago
Recovery from divorce requires us to make changes in our lives. Lots of changes. No big surprise here. For example, divorce almost always forces us to make changes in our relationships, our finances, our living ...
Divorce Recovery and Your 4 Hidden Strengths – Get the Answer to "How Will I Ever Get Through This?"
By Jerald Young · 17 years ago
"Divorce recovery" gives rise to thoughts like, "I never thought I'd have to do this. I've never been in this predicament before." Or, "Everything is new and threatening. I feel lost and afraid things will ...
Divorce Recovery & Ambivalence - Why Do I Have Second Thoughts When I'm Glad I Got Divorced?
By Jerald Young · 17 years ago
Recovery from divorce is bathed in ambivalence. We wish it weren't so. We assume we will shed the past, much like a snake sheds its skin, and get on with our life after divorce without ...