The sad thing about most men that want to get back with a girlfriend they broke up with is, they usually don't have much of a plan at all. Instead, they kind of just rely on random things and hope that one day they will just happen to get it right. Of course, when you go into anything with that kind of mindset, you don't really expect to be much of a success, do you? You need to have a plan in place if you are going to get your girlfriend back, otherwise, the only thing that you really are relying on is luck.

;Here are some fast ways of getting her back using a plan:

;1. First part of the plan... you need to step back and give her some room.

;Time and time again men make the mistake of assuming that with enough attention, they will somehow melt the heart of their ex girlfriend and she will feel like she should give them a second chance. Problem with this is, when you give her too much attention, you usually end up making her feel like you are crowding her and when she feels like that... she is going to bail on you for good. Step back, give her some room, and show her that you are not going to act like it's junior high.

;2. Second part of the plan... you need to make her feel jealous of you.

;This comes in two parts. One, she needs to feel jealous that you are moving on and that means that you need to enjoy the company of other women. You don't have to, and you really shouldn't get serious with anyone else yet, but let her know that you can do just fine attracting women other than her. The second part is to make her jealous of you doing nothing but good things with your life. Achieve your goals, get in shape, build up your social circle. Let her know that you are not the typical guy just sitting around and day dreaming about his ex girlfriend.

;3. Third part of the plan is... you need to be able to cultivate a desire in her again.

;The first two parts support this third part. Do the first two right, and she should be thinking about you as being one of the more desirable guys in her life. Next, you need to amplify that feeling, and to do this... you need to get back in her life and flirt with her and build attraction with her. Make sure that you don't get caught up in trying to talk about getting back together, you want to guide her to coming to that conclusion all on her own.