The importance of being non needy cannot be overemphasised.

There are so many tactics and techniques but guys don't understand the underlying principles of why they are doing them. If this is the case they will most likely fail with the tactics since they don't know why they are doing them and will in turn use them at the wrong time or in the wrong context.

All the tactics and techniques are generally to emit a non needy attitude to women. This shows them that you can take it or leave it and as such they become attracted since most men fawn all over them but you are different. This builds strong intrigue with the women and they want to know more and thus make efforts to win you over.

Not only does it build attraction on the first meeting bit it is what will make or break weather you see her again. Something I noticed recently of many of the girls I ended up having sex with is that they would usually cancel on me several times before meeting up. Now I used to be in the mindset that this was an insult to me and would become angry or try and 'punish' them. I now believe that this was in error as it showed them I wanted it too bad and thus all my game from before went down the pan. So instead now I almost expect them to flake at least once. I am still working on getting them to meet asap which is concerned with improving my initial game on the meet but point is if they do flake then now I make efforts to act not bothered. To be honest I got a flake this week (at the time of writing) and I still felt the initial sting of it but since I had time to compose myself over text I remembered not to reply in a reactive manner and instead act like I wasn't bothered.

Unfortunately for you guys just starting out on the road to strong game I don't think this is something that can be faked and instead must come from much much experience. Sure you can learn the techniques to act like you don't care for a while but if you do care sooner or later it's gonna creep through. Not only that, I'll tell you my experience. I actually became really good at having responses ready to show I didn't care but inside it still often really pissed me off at the time. I now realize this was because I was putting all my self esteem on these interactions. I was able to keep up the charade for a good while but the longer I kept it up and she would flake me more is the more stressed I got for not getting what I wanted.

I think two things have calmed this down for me. 1st was getting more success and the 2nd was getting a couple of hobbies outside of game. Now I think of it the 1st probably came because of the second because without getting other things I would have remained too stressed and needy to get better results. I took up learning an instrument and concentrating on my home business. These things I've found are great to take my mind off the game. Although I still love to play the game to the hilt my outcome dependence is much less now since I am not resting my whole self esteem on this one activity.

Just remember the non needy attitude must be something you work on embodying not just at the start but throughout your interactions with women.

So keep those things in mind when you are flirting with women.