Call girls are people too and, even though they provide their clients with a very special, professional service, they also have feelings, emotions, and desires. They should be treated with respect regardless of who is paying for what.

Providers will usually have a website, and it’s important that you refer to this site to ascertain her personal etiquette guidelines. Boundaries are important, and if she has clear boundaries, don’t try to get around them. It’s also generally considered rude to bring up details of her private life such as her real name, her family, or whether or not she has a boyfriend. Talking about her other clients is also impolite.

Details

In your initial contacts with her, which may be by phone or email, talking specifically about her sexual services, especially if she has not provided an explicit list on her website, is usually considered impolite and may even be illegal. Although basic questions may be fine, it’s usually better to simply read the reviews on her site to find out what kinds of experiences she offers. Never attempt to negotiate her down from her set rate, and don’t ask her for photos that show her face.

Dress

Unless she has previously told you otherwise, dress as if you were going on a regular first date. If you have any questions about dress, ask her. If she asks how she should dress, don’t specify anything that would attract too much attention. Although she may be happy to dress provocatively once she is comfortable with you, keep it simple for the first date.

Hygiene

Good hygiene is an extremely important part of seeing a call girl. Shower immediately before the encounter, and make sure you are shaved and your teeth are brushed. Fresh breath will help the encounter go a lot more smoothly, and if you need to smoke, ask her before you light up.

Comfort

Once you are at the final date location, whether her place or yours, spend a few moments getting to know each other. If you are on her territory, she will generally make the first move by indicating to you that it’s time to get comfortable. If she is at your place, she will expect you to make the first move, and you should feel free to begin kissing her when you are ready. If this will be your first time with a call girl, let her know so that she can be extra delicate in guiding you through the process.

Payment

The financial transaction is an essential part of the process, and the majority of call girls have specific preferences as to how they like this part to be handled. Many times, you will be asked to leave the payment in an unsealed envelope in a highly visible location, but if you have any doubts, ask. Enclosing your payment in a pretty card the first few times can endear you greatly to your call girl.

After

It’s not impolite to send her a note commenting on how much you enjoyed the time you spent together. If you didn’t enjoy the appointment for some reason, just don’t contact her again. Keep in mind that, although your date may have been a perfect fantasy for you, for her it is a business, and she’s probably not interested in dating you or spending time with you outside of your appointments.