Ok so you are wondering how it is possible to be attractive to a woman when you are not the best looking or you associate yourself as not the best looking. Well let me tell you friend that it is possible, when you meet a women you get put into a category depending on your approach and how you convey yourself to the woman.

Unlike men who just go straight for looks in women and are more attracted to women because of their looks than her personality at the start women are on a better playing field than men. So if you are average looking and have a good personality you will go a long way with women because your personality my friend is much, much more powerful than you looks will ever be. Women do not choose to be attracted to you, it's biological and in their blood that once you learn how to push those buttons they are unable to control themselves around you.

So if you are average looking you have no excuse for not attracting beautiful women because it can be done and has been done. Have you not gone out to the shopping centre or gone to a movie with a friend and seen extremely average looking guys with beautiful women? And I am also sure you ask the question of how is that possible, how can a guy like that get a woman like that.

When you learn how to push those buttons inside of a woman at the very start and you learn how to "attract women" and become that challenge they desire then you automatically go from being average looking to "hot." You must learn how to be yourself around women and not go to get something from women but instead go out to have fun and enjoy yourself. You have heard this countless of times from female friends and even your mother to go out and just enjoy yourself don't worry about women but yet for some reason we as men still do. When you are yourself towards women there is no need to impress her or seek her approval because you are being yourself and women are extremely attracted to this.

Women can tell the difference between a guy who "gets it" and a guy who is a complete wuss before you even open your mouth. It all comes down to your body language, how you hold yourself, your voice tone, what you are focusing on and more. All those little things that I thought never mattered to women actually do.

The biggest tips and advice that I can give you is to be yourself around women, don't try impress women with where you work or what you do for a living, how much money you have, or what you have to offer because all of these traits will work against you not with you. I have had men act or try to be someone else who they are not and some have succeed to a first date, though as soon a woman see's the real you who comes out and you are not that person they first met and it is over in a blink of an eye. So the most potent message I can send across to you is that the man you are is powerful, more powerful than you realize so use it to work for you.