How To Arrange A Stress Free Wedding Party

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  • Author Soumitra Chakraborty
  • Published January 12, 2010
  • Word count 924

If your wedding is round the corner then you must be having a lot of pressure or stress on your nervous system. It is quite natural, marriage being such a big event of our life. Still there is actually no point in pressing the panic button. All you need to do is chalking out a proper game plan before plunging into the extravaganza.

Just make it a point to make a note of the vital points which are going to be discussed.

First and foremost step, make it a point that you have started all your preparation long before the actual date of wedding. A last minute preparation always adds to your level of anxiety. To save you from the burden of extra tension always get yourself a preparation time for 6-8 months. Thus you would be left a sufficient quantity of time to prepare yourself.

Second most important thing, segregate your work plan. Do not try to tackle each and everything by your self. It is quite natural that before your marriage you would be a little unnerved. So never make the decision to tackle everything by yourself. That would be inviting more confusion. Make a plan that allows you enough space to divide the responsibilities of the event on deserving hands. You can keep faith on your friends. Try to segregate the jobs among them based on the realization on who would fit what kind of an activity pertaining to the responsibilities of your wedding.

Third most important thing, try to hire a professional help. To be precise a professional wedding planner is exactly what you need at this hour. A professional wedding planner is the most equipped assistance that you can ever expect before your marriage event. Being deft in this industry they have the required knowledge of what would be helpful to you. They can guide you properly and getting a wedding event done with their help also prevents you from facing hazards during the event.

Fourth most important thing, if you are the bride then you have to take every precaution that you never ever let the ‘Bridezilla’ syndrome take a toll on your sensitivities.

Bridezilla is actually a coined term that keeps rotating in the circle of the marriage industry. It refers to a certain woman or rather a bride who gets cautious or over anxious regarding her wedding. Out of a sudden spurt of excitement or nervousness she tries to look for too much perfection in every proceeding of the event. Owing to her instinct, she makes a serious endeavor to take control over all the main details pertaining to the wedding. Owing to this particular sensation such brides do call upon a lot of a stress on themselves unnecessarily. At the same time, their overzealousness sometimes do act like a spoilsport. So do refrain from turning into a Bridezilla.

Fifth quintessential point you should never like to forget is – always get a back up for the external arrangements you have done to add grace to this very special event of your life. To exemplify the situation in a lucid manner - imagine a situation that it is almost the last moment. Your wedding is supposed to take place in a couple of hours. You have already hired a florist to the part of beautification of the venue. If the florist does not show up? That would be a predicament. However you can choose to avert the situation of an embarrassment in front of the invited guests. Quickly take a step. Just get someone and send an order of flowers to the flower shop which is near by. Just purchase all the flowers that you can find out over there. If by any chance the D.J you have hired fails to show up in the appointed hours the mood of celebration gets spoiled. So do not take a chance to disappoint your guests. Make sure that you have got an MR3 player or a sound system ready with you. In case the DJ misses out the event you can play some rocking numbers on the MP3 player and take good care of the entertainment part of your guests. There are possibilities that your photographer can miss out due to any unavoidable reasons. So make sure that your digital gadgets are ok. So that in the absence of your photographer you can take snaps from your own and register these memories in your personal closet.

Sixth vital point, always try to avert arranging an wedding on any holiday. Having an wedding event arranged on a holiday would be much easier to attend for the guests as they would be free from work on holidays. But for you it would be troublesome. As a matter of fact, on holidays it is too hard to get the venues unoccupied. On the other hand your guests might have some other important engagements too on holidays. So making arrangements of a wedding on a holiday would be akin to inviting unnecessary stress on you. So it would be better to skip that part if you want to get rid of your wedding stress.

The occasion of wedding is truly an affair top remember for eternity, as long as you breathe on this earth. So try to make it memorable like a worthy one, not as a night mare full of intricacies, mismanagement mayhem and loathsome experiences on the part of you as well as your guests. Preparing a schedule based on the above few simple steps which have been discussed above.

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