Some guys seem to have it all: money, power, women! If you are in the "not so much" crowd, it is easy to wander how those guys who seem to have it all do it.Sometimes the geekiest guy will have a "hot model" girlfriend. One thing you should know is that women are a uniquely designed. There are certain traits, overall, that women like in their men. If you began to understand this affect, then you will up your chances on getting the girl of your dreams.

Women are highly emotional by design. It is in our nature. We want to belong, feel wanted, admired, and desired. you may be surprised, but personality plays an important role in determining the law of attraction for women. Even though looks matter, to a certain extent, women would rather have much, much more.

I am sure you have noticed a guy that isn't so great looking, but he has a beautiful wife or girlfriend. You, yourself, want this as well. You want to understand how you can have your choice of women. If you want to be the guy that girls the girl, you have to understand the way women think. This is not rocket science, but it will take some time and patience on your part to master how women think.

The key word is emotion. Understand that women are not a species from another planet. Even though we are emotional, we know that life is not a fairy tale. Contrary to what you make think, we don't ask for much.

Step1

Go and get a few books from the library on the way women think and our bodylanguage. Read them and write down some of the most interesting things that you can use to your advantage.

Step2

Practice how you want to approach a woman in the mirror. It may sound clique, but this will make you feel more comfortable and confident when you are in a real world situation with a woman. Watch yourself in the mirror, concentration on gestures, the way you carry yourself and anything else you feel you need to work on. Women like a man with confidence. Even if you have a few nerves, it's understandable. Just work on it. Make sure you don't over-practice, though, as you don't want it to come off to the woman as acting.

Step3

Everyone has a sense of humor. Think about the things that you find funny. This doesn't mean you have to come with a comedy act. Some of the smallest can make a woman smile or laugh. Think about how you can incorporate humor into the situation once you approach or go on a date with a woman.

Step4

Understand a woman's body language. A woman sends signals with the way she holds herself and facial expressions. You can use this to your advantage. For example, if a woman smiles at you or may eye contact with you at a club, this may be a sure fire sign she wants you to approach her. Learn basic subconscious signals that a woman sends out.

Step5

Put everything you have learned to the test. Now that you understand the way a woman think and her body language, go out to a comfortable setting. If you see a woman that you feel you may want to approach, go up to her and get the conversation going. Who knows what will happen!