The only real way to achieve marketing your primary business with out spamming people is to make use of strategies that the producers in network marketing are using with regard to online marketing.

I am referring to a particular form of marketing, attraction marketing. Implementing attraction marketing include making use of a system that provide solutions to marketing problems on the front end and that promote your primary business on the back end.

There are a few ways to go about promoting your business and it involves not talking to people about your primary business when you connect with them for the first time.

People need to get to know, like and trust you first. That is why it is advisable to have a self hosted website or blog where you can refer people as well as drive traffic too using methods that include: Article marketing, blogging, social media marketing, solo ads, free classifieds, pay per click and various other marketing strategies.

You should also focus on setting up your profile on your social sites in such a way that people can relate to you and like you for the person that you are.

A significant addition to attracting people to you is to provide people access to useful information that will enhance their success in their business.

If you make a new connection on a social site, you should start out with a brief introduction as in the example below.

Hi "Peter", it is a pleasure to connect with you here on xyz. I am "Harmonica", how was you day at work?

Peter: "It was fine, did the usual."

Harmonica: "Hello Peter, what work do you do?"

Peter: "Well, I work in a nine to five job, sit behind a desk all day. You know what I am talking about, boring."

Harmonica: "One of those huh, well I got tired of doing that Peter, so I made a few changes to my life style. Been there done that, got the T-shirt. Say, would you like to know what I do?"

Peter:" Yeah, sure."

Now you can start by asking a few questions to get to know your connection better and to build a relationship. During the coarse of your conversation you will come to a point where you will be able to talk about your primary business but do not give too much information.

In fact, rather give some information for your connection to have a look at and arrange a time to get back to them after they have reviewed the information and take care of any questions that they may have.

You may want to refer him or her to your website at this point and let your website do the talking for you. Start on the: "About Me" page so that Peter can get to know you better and how you got started in your business. Let Peter find out what makes you tick and to be able to relate to your personal life story.

Build relationships with people and help them, that is one of the keys to growing your mlm business.

There you have it, this is an example of a non Spam way to build your primary business on social sites.

There are social sites where you can mix and mingle with just network marketers but guess what: Every network marketer think that their company xyz is the best with the best comp plan, product or service.

What will set you apart from all the rest.

One fact that would set you apart from them all is if you can help them with the necessary tools of the industry to enhance their success in their company xyz.

Another bonus would be if you educated yourself in the strategies and tools that would enhance their success so that you would be able to become a person with authority, a leader and mentor to be able to guide them to their success.

Would you not agree that this would set you apart from all the other network marketers on such a social site? I think so.

If I had a steak and their were a lot of people seeking a steak, I would surely attract the people looking for a steak to me.

Okay, just for the vegetarians out there.

If I had a carrot and it was the last carrot on the planet, surely I would attract a lot of vegetarians searching for that golden carrot.

The bottom line is that if you have the answers to people with a particular problem, you are sure to get those people come to you for the solution.

Does that make sense?

So you promote the solutions to their problem and at the end you share with them your opportunity.

You do this also without spamming.

You ask them a very simple question: "Peter, now that you have the answer to your problem in you business, I am curious to know. Are you set in concrete with regard to the mlm business that you are in?"

If he replies yes, well then that is pretty much that, but you will still be benefiting from providing Peter with the solutions to his problems.

If he replies no, then he is open to hearing about your network marketing company and you have just signed up a new member in your primary business.

You might say to me, this is a whole lot of baloney.

Well my friend, everybody is entitled to their opinion, but know this, there are a great number of people that use this exact method and that are 6 and 7 figure earners.

How well is your strategy working for you that you are using?

How many new people do you expose your business to everyday?

Using attraction marketing, the producers in growing their mlm business online get 300 to even and astounding 1 900 plus leads on a daily basis.

How would you like to do that?

Hmm... I suggest that you learn from a professional how to generate laser targeted leads consistently everyday.