Dance of the Sheepish
- Author Andrew Beene
- Published May 25, 2011
- Word count 544
To make it more direct, I am afraid of women. I am so afraid that when I’m in clubs, I tend to befriend a bottle of beer rather than meeting new friends of prospective girls. I’m not into opening up since I thought I have a weight issue and my face has been hit by meteorites of acne. The truth is none of these two are my real problems. I am afraid of women and their rejection. However, that was 5 minutes ago.
The solution came from the least way I could ever think of. A friend of mine who goes by the name of Racquel asked me something about messaging a girl and adding her on Facebook. It was her story at first but I think carrying my issue for 22 years of my existence on Earth gave me the drive to share my stupidity on approaching or attracting women.
I told Racquel that I’m gravely affected of my attitude towards the opposite sex. This stems out from one issue. I don’t mean any disrespect. Gays always look at me. Girls seldom take a peek of my face.
Three weeks ago, I met with my fraternity brothers and I opened up my issue to them. They told me to mimic a good masculine guy that would change others perception of me instantly. I immediately thought of the guy who works in a welding Jamaica team. Every body language, every posture, every facial expression, I copied. It was working. But the point still remains, that guy from a welding supply company is not me. Sure, he looks masculine since he is a steel metal supplier carrying tons of metal abrasives and welded chain links but that is just not me. So, I gave it up.
Racquel and I work in the same company. We’re in the same team and a messaging client or application is available for us for instant messaging through intranet. I told her my issue. I admitted for the first time that I am afraid of women and the rejection after saying hi to them.
Then, she told me the weirdest words I have ever heard which supposed to boost up my confidence. She told me that a reserved, simple, and humble guy is sexy. I was like, "Well, that has been me for the past 22 years but nobody found me sexy." She told me she is coming from the perspective of a natural woman. And she is, I have to say. She is always bubbly and although the weather or any type of condition hits her, she still manages to put a smile on everyone’s face.
She expounded for a little bit. She said a real woman needs a guy who is reserved yet sensible. I objected by saying it’s boring. She gave me a friendly "no stupid!"
Everything boils down to how we carry conversations and how we present ourselves. No pretentious characters, no trying-hard personality, no imitation of someone you are not. Out of the conversation I had with Racquel, there is another thing I realized. Celebrate who you are. It is only when you are happy and contented being yourself that others will be happy and contented with you in the end.
Andrew Beene is an expert writer that writes about welding Jamaica,welding supply company,steel metal supplier,metal abrasives,welded chain link. For more information about the site, visit http://www.maxmetalltd.com
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