Most toddlers can hear just fine, but you wouldn't know it from the way they act! It's tough to get their attention, but it's important that they understand when it's time to listen to mommy or daddy.

The following tips can help you and your child establish good listening habits.

BING! - Find a word or sound that means 'Listen Up!' Try to use it every time you want your child to listen to you. Soon they will learn to associate it with paying attention to mommy or daddy. Watch out, though! Your child will definitely use the word or phrase on you. Make sure you're ready to set a good listening example when you hear 'BING!'

Eye contact - If you can get them to look you in the eye, a toddler is more likely to hear what you are saying. Make it easy on them: get down to their level and point their head in your direction. Soon your keyword will make them do this automatically.

Keep it positive - Parents say No a lot. It's their job. But it's not much fun to listen to, and even young ones get tired of it. Be sure to practice listening with some Yes statements, positive reinforcement, and praise. No one wants to listen to 'No' all day long.

Turn it off - If you want your child to hear you, make it easier for them by cutting out distractions. Turn off the TV, stereo, and electronic toys. You will instantly become the most interesting thing in the room. If you are out and about, try moving to a quiet spot, like a bathroom.

Try quieter, not louder - If your child is not listening, the first instinct is to raise your voice. Barring distractions, if you talk more quietly, a toddler's natural curiosity may make them wonder what you're saying and come to investigate. This also sets a good example: a quiet parent will have a quieter child.

Take a break - Before you talk to your child to take a few deep breaths, and encourage them to do the same. Even an 18 month old can do this. Raise their arms above their head and take a deep breath in, then lower them and breathe out. It's surprising how quickly they will imitate your breathing. They will focus all their attention on you while doing this. Then you can jump in with your catch phrase and start talking.

Be patient, be consistent - This is the hardest thing to do. Learning a new skill, whether you're a toddler or a parent, is frustrating. So give your child, and yourself, a break. It won't happen overnight, but keep at it and it will happen eventually.

Listening is one of the most important skills parents teach their toddlers. The daily challenges can be exasperating, but they are a good time to practice for when it really is important.