To forgive you must have blamed!

An inability to forgive is the cause of many people's suffering these days. This is why it is so important to learn and practice forgiveness. The absence of it is like living a life of imprisonment.

So what is it to practice forgiveness? I'll describe it as to genuinely feel and be willing 100 percent to let go of blame, judgment and hatred towards another person or thing.

Life is a series of events and we are constantly creating and attracting these events unto ourselves. This is why we should never blame others for how we believe they made us feel, or how we think they should NOT have treated us.

The fact is the Universe is perfect and is always working just the way it's suppose to. We may not always agree, but things always happen in the way they are suppose to happen.

Learning to forgive means learning to correct the misconceptions that we have created with our own thoughts. When we change our misconception and truly forgive another, we are actually saying to them "I no longer give you the power to control who I am, how I think, or how I'll behave from now on". In reality we are now taking responsibility for it all. This is how it was meant to be.

Being totally free from blame and taking complete responsibility for life requires great discipline of self love. When we love ourselves we refuse to allow our emotions to be managed by others. Forgiveness puts an end to all of that. So you see, to truly be in forgiveness goes much deeper than saying mere empty words. Much more deeper.

Be mindful because when forgiveness is something that you still need to practice, you will continue to attract the opportunities to practice it. Know that when you react in anger, hatred and defiance, those kind of people will continue to show up in your life.

Here's a key to live a life of abundance. If you can master this you'll find forgiveness is a way of life for you. "Giving is the key to forgiving."

What are you to give? The key is to give of yourself in time and all of the wonderful things that keep circulating back into your life. What you should be aiming for is to not hoard the things that are coming into your life but rather enjoy them for a period, then keep them circulating.

Society as a whole is so use to acquiring things with a fear of loss attitude attached to it. People want to hang on to all things for a lifetime. That's the wrong behavior. The Universe is all about evolving and circulating. In reality we don't own anything, every- thing we acquire is for our temporary use for a certain period of time. Then we are to pass it on to someone else for their use. This very system keeps abundance flowing into our lives.

It is impossible to walk in bitterness or hatred toward another when our primary goal is to be a giving human being. Forgiveness comes automatically whenever we detach ourselves from the need to get something, and instead focus on reaching out to others.

Giving is the key to forgiving, simply because the less we are obsessed with getting, the more willing we are to give. The more we give, the more we will seem to get. It all begins with us, our thoughts and the ability to forgive. Make it a habit to practice this formula and abundance will surely be attracted into your life.