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Mental Scan of Potentiality
By Cheri Valentine · 12 years ago
Dating is an opportunity to Get out and socialize. Have an open mind! Stop screening everyone as a potential and likely candidate for the perfect mate and start enjoying people and experiences for the pleasure ...
Wanting vs Ready to Be in Love
By Cheri Valentine · 12 years ago
So many people want to be in love. It's a great place to be when it is healthy and satisfying your requirements, needs, and wants. Yet so few people are really clear about what these ...
Finding Mr. Mrs. Or Ms. Right - What To Talk About On A First Date
By Cheri Valentine · 12 years ago
If you haven’t been on the dating field in a while, it can be daunting to get started again. Even for seasoned professionals, that first date can be so awkward and uncomfortable. The most common ...
Finding Mr. Mrs. Or Ms. Right - Happiness Attracts Happiness
By Cheri Valentine · 12 years ago
It is nearly impossible to escape hearing the words "Law of Attraction" especially with the explosion of "The Secret." While it is great that this book and movie have helped more people become aware of ...
Finding Mr. Mrs. Or Ms. Right - Setting Boundaries In Life and In Dating
By Cheri Valentine · 12 years ago
Setting personal boundaries is important in relationships. It allows you to be centered, indicates to others how to treat you, and helps you find the right person.
If we do not set personal boundaries, we ...
Finding Mr. Mrs. Or Ms. Right - Who Are You Bee-ing?
By Cheri Valentine · 12 years ago
In your search for Mr. Mrs. or Ms. Right have you ever stopped to consider who you are being in this search? When you look at who you are and the why of it, it ...
Finding Mr. Mrs. Or Ms. Right - Where To Find Them?
By Cheri Valentine · 12 years ago
In searching for Mr. Mrs. or Ms. Right, I am often asked, "Where Can I Find Them?" Many do not enjoy going to bars and feel like a fish out of water when they do ...
Finding Mr. Mrs. Or Ms. Right - Be Passionate About You
By Cheri Valentine · 12 years ago
So many men and women tell me they want a mate in their life. Some just do not want to be alone. Others think it will make their life easier. While many others just want ...
Finding Mr. Mrs. Or Ms. Right - Where To Start?
By Cheri Valentine · 12 years ago
Have you convinced yourself that you are destined to being alone because Mr. Mrs. or Ms. Right does not exist? If so, please take a deep breath. Now, allow yourself to believe the possibility of ...
Sadie Jackson - Confession
By Cheri Valentine · 12 years ago
I have a confession to make. I am not sure to whom I am making this confession. I guess I am just admitting it out loud. I have been drowning my loneliness in wine and ...
Sadie Jackson - Stood Up
By Cheri Valentine · 12 years ago
"I cannot believe this is happening again!" an agitated Sadie exclaimed out loud to the empty seat across from her. She had been rather proud of herself yesterday when she let go of the space ...
Sadie Jackson - One Door Closes – Another One Opens
By Cheri Valentine · 12 years ago
"So, what happened after the first month? Did the honeymoon end?" Lindy caustically asked her friend.
"Lindy, stop being so condescending!" Sadie chastised. "You’re acting as if you’ve never made a mistake."
"Sadie, I’ve made ...
Sadie – Reliving the Color of a Whirlwind Relationship
By Cheri Valentine · 12 years ago
"So the first night, he dropped me off at the posh hotel I was staying and he went home. We had such a great time, Saturday. We strolled through downtown holding hands. I just remember ...
Sadie’s – Coming Out of the Dark and Recounting the Color
By Cheri Valentine · 12 years ago
"Hello Lindy! I am ready to come out of my hole. Can we meet for lunch today?"
"Of course. I was only giving you one more day before I broke down your door and dragged ...
Sadie’s Dating Adventures – Mini-Marriage is Over
By Cheri Valentine · 12 years ago
My mini marriage is over. I am as deflated as a popped balloon at a child’s birthday party. I don’t know what I was thinking. Who am I kidding? I was not thinking. I did ...
Sadie’s Dating Escapades – False Advertisement Continues
By Cheri Valentine · 12 years ago
"What is wrong with that, Dave, is blatant trickery and manipulation." I replied.
"And by the way, the reason I may not have affirmed a connection had I seen your REAL picture, is NOT just ...
Sadie’s Dating Escapades – False Advertisement
By Cheri Valentine · 12 years ago
"Oh, good Lord! That cannot possibly be the man I am meeting tonight," I exclaimed out loud to no one in particular.
"Excuse me," I said to the waiter passing by, ""Is that portly man, ...
Sadie Jackson’s Dating Escapades – Approachable
By Cheri Valentine · 12 years ago
Although I am often on the prowl for someone special to date, it’s those times when I least expect it, that men are attracted to me like bears to honey. It seems to me that ...
Stop Looking for "Your Type"
By Cheri Valentine · 12 years ago
You think you know your type In fact, you are sure of it. You have actually dated them, perhaps even married them – more than once on both counts. So, let me ask you, if ...