It is surely a curse to lead a lonely life. Nothing can make you happy you are a loner. You will pine for a good friend who will love you for who you are not what you have. A good fried is more valuable than Millions of dollars. But good friends are not easily available. It requires some effort and patience to find the romance of your life. Gone are the days when people would post personal ads in newspapers and magazines. Now you can have the golden opportunity to meet the dream of your life through online dating. There are hundreds of free matchmaking sites. With their help you can make hundreds of friends across the globe.

However there are many people who could not get any meaningful relationship despite trying repeatedly trough these dating sites. Why do they keep on failing while others are happy with their friends? The secret is that they are making some glaring mistakes without their knowledge. Only if they would be smart enough to realize those blunders they could get the romance of their life.

Number one mistake is to take the first meeting too seriously. Those who are desperate to get girlfriends tend to take every date like an interview. As a result they appear to be very much tensed and at the same time artificial too. Girls simply loathe this kind of desperateness. They always fall for a confident and peaceful guy. Instead you should approach with cool head and certain casualness. Try to get her as friend first, not your bed partner.

Number two mistake is dating a number of girls at the same time. They try to be a James bond. If you are seeing more than one girl at the same time you will not be able to concentrate on any one of them. Your behavior will reveal your unpreparedness. Girls will simply kick you out if they feel you are not giving enough importance to them.

Mistake number two is use of sexually explicit term. Some fools believe that if they make their carnal intention clear girls will just swoon over them. Just the opposite is true. Any modest girl will feel offended if you use sex related term explicitly or implicitly in their presence. Remember you are dating to earn a good friend not a whore.

Mistake number four is to be impatient. Say you met a girl for the first time. You did not make any glaring mistake. You are well attracted to that girl; but she did not show much interest. You should not take that as an implicit NO. Do not give up. Send a polite email after the meeting saying what you liked about her. If your approach is honest she will definitely reply. After that you can request for another date. Patience is the best trick in dating.

Mistake number five is to try to appear too much masculine or super confident. Some believe that if that can prove themselves to be macho girls will go gaga over them. It is not the real case. If you appear to be too much masculine she may get scared. You should make her feel comfortable and secure. Be polite and give her lots of space.