3 "Ninja Stealth" Tips for Dating Single Women...

One of the keys to effectively dating single women is the ability to be a man that women want. Quite simply, the more obvious you are, the more boring you are. And nothing stops a woman from becoming attracted to you faster than BORING her.

So what I'm going to share with you right now are three of my "Ninja Stealth" techniques for dating single women that any guy can use - and every guy MUST use.

Dating Single Women - Ninja Stealth Technique 1: Be In Demand.

Your strategy for dating single women should have this right at the top. You want to be the man in demand. There is no value in being the guy that has to beg to be a part of the fun times.

Being in demand is easy if you obey some simple social rules:

1. Don't be needy guy. Don't always call your friends and leech onto their plans. Create your own and invite them along so you're the guy with the goods.

2. Don't be too available. Sometimes you gotta disappear and "go dark" for a few days. Let your friends wonder about you. As "polite" as it is, being at everyone's beck and call gets really old, and does nothing for your perceived social value.

3. Bring more fun than you take. No one likes an energy vampire. But we all LOVE the guy that brings some extra juice to a party and livens things up. Be that dude.

So when you're in demand - or you understand the rules of this skill - you'll know how to leverage it with the women in your life, too. It's always the guy that treats his dating life different than his social life that gets a rude awakening - that they both work pretty much the same.

Women look at your social circle and make a lot of decisions about dating you based on what she sees.

Dating Single Women - Ninja Stealth Technique 2: Date Many - Not The "One"

The more women you date, the more you will understand that the woman you are with is not as unique or "special" as you might think. It's only circumstance that makes her such a valuable part of your life. In reality, you could date another few women and find that any one of them could be just as "special" to you - only for slightly different reasons.

Men often lack an understanding of the big picture. That you could meet a woman, fall in love, get married, even have some children, and she might not be the woman you're with forever. In the span of a year you could be divorced, dating single women again, meet another great woman, fall in love all over again - and you would think it was TOTALLY different this time.

I thought that last one was special? "The ONE"?

So remember that the woman you're with is only as special as YOU make her out to be. And only by dating MANY different women can you:

1. Learn what it is you really want in a woman

2. Avoid the obsession and neediness that dating one woman brings on - and ultimately scares her off

3. See that you live in a universe of abundance, where losing one woman isn't really a big deal in the grand scheme of things.

Don't let your emotions rule your life. Seize control by putting yourself in an abundance mindset right from the very start, and you'll see that dating single women is much easier than you ever imagined.

Dating Single Women - Ninja Stealth Technique 3: You're the MAN.

There are many facets of being THE MAN when you're dating single women.

The first is LEADERSHIP.

Women are attracted to men who take charge and take initiative. That means you have ownership of the situation, as well as creating the situation in the first place from your own plan.

Don't be confused by the "I am woman - hear me roar" message that you get these days. Women want a man who makes things happen more than ever. In the wake of feminism, women are now in a barren desert, waiting for a real man who can take the bull by the horns and sweep her off her feet.

The second quality is INDEPENDENCE.

You have to act on your own plan without running around looking for everyone's approval. Or needing it.

The last quality is MASCULINE CONFIDENCE.

The reality is that women are attracted to MEN. Not men who act like women, dress like women, look like women.

Women want a real MAN. Now more than ever. Masculinity is the secret ingredient that makes every romance work better when you're dating single women.

It's the opposite pole of the magnet. It's the opposite terminal of the battery that let's the electric current of love and passion flow. We are attracted to our sexual opposite - as it should be.

So work to embrace your native masculinity in all its glory, and see how women respond to you with an almost feverish glint in their eye.

The reason these are my "Ninja Stealth" techniques for dating single women is because they are not based on a "technique" or "trick" that you have to memorize. Women will never "catch" you and give you grief for using them to create REAL attraction. (I have yet to hear a woman complain about me being the MAN in the relationship... and if she did, I don't want her in my life.)

Nothing to memorize - or mess up.

When you give a woman what she wants - pushing her primal attraction triggers - she will always want you, and she'll never be bored and stray. And that's the best effect you can possibly have on a woman.