You know, I've been involved into so many different areas of life during the past 10 years. I've mastered many skills, and gotten to be pretty knowledgeable in others. The number one secret I discovered in all of this? Its to use the 90/10 rule. What I have found is I can nowadays master a skill 10 times faster than other people. Why? I simply apply the Paretto principle. This principle states that 10% of the work brings 90% of the results. It also means that 10% of the knowledge is responsible for 90% of the results, and the other 90% of knowledge only contributes an extra 10% advantage.

Well, approaching women is similar, except its more like 99 to 1 ratio! Most of the articles, systems, ebooks and methods online give you the 99% that only contributes 1% of the result. If you want to know how to approach, then you need to just stick to the 1% that brings 99% of the results, and I'm here to deliver it to you my man! So here we go... What you need to understand is the following:

a) The purpose of an approach is not to make a woman think you're the greatest thing since sliced bread. This is impossible. Even the best possible approach for that particular woman, at that particular time, will only increase her attraction to you 5% more than just saying "Hi, I'm Bob" in a charming, cool, suave way

b) This is where the trick lies. You want to become a charming, suave, cool guy, to where you get 95% of ideal results, by just being social and saying hi. The way to do this is to 1) change your mindset and 2) become more social. You can learn a whole bunch of tricks in not appearing needy. I know I've passed 20DVD courses by gurus making millions on it. There's all kinds of tricks on what to say, when to say it... But all those combined, rarely bring a better result than genuinely being not needy.

c) This is why you must make it your primary goal to just talk to a whole bunch of people and always be approaching people wherever you go. I mean just talk to anyone that crosses your path. Introduce yourself to people at functions and networking events. Talk to every single person that walks into an elevator. Strike up conversations with people on the nearby park bench or the waiter serving your food. What will happen overtime is this will become so second nature to you, that you will develop a charm and charisma that can not be faked.

d) This will increase your non-neediness to pretty huge levels, but the final thing to seal is changing your mindset like I said earlier. This means that you change your goal to approaching hot women. Instead of approaching her for the goal of "picking her up", your only outcome is to just be social and say hi. What then tends to happen is you get the most ideal, most attractive and cool approach you can, in the simplest way possible.