Online dating can be fun, but be sure to be safe

Online dating is a great way to meet other singles. Here are a few tips to help you meet people, have fun and maybe find that special someone. These tips will show you how to be safe while doing it. Be sure to protect your computer. You need to have a firewall and anti virus protection for your e-mail whenever you search websites or interact online. Be careful when choosing dating sites. Be sure to find a reputable online dating service. The best way is to ask around from friends, coworkers, neighbors and others who have tried out online dating. Only try the places others have told you are safe.

Safety for Men

Most of the information you hear about safety is geared towards women, but men need to be careful also. Weirdo’s come in both sexes and so the liars and cheaters. It is very important to be careful when giving out personal information to strangers. If somebody asks you for personal information don't do it. You need to guard your real name, address, phone number, and place of employment. Only give this information out when you are confident that they are, who they say they are. You need to watch out for women who seem to be financially needy. If a woman asks you for money, you need to cut the relationship immediately. These women are not looking for love or even friendship they are looking for financial aid. If a woman gives you her phone number and you can't reach her at that number this is a red flag, be aware. If the only way you can contact her is through e-mail or text and then she calls you back, this is a definite sign that she is not being honest with you. If a woman is pushing too hard for a commitment you aren't ready to make, you may want to get out while you can. Many women are just looking for someone to marry for financial security.

Safety for Women

Being safe dating online is simply using common sense and good judgment. The rules are basically the same as in the real world dating. Just as you would not give Jenny, address and phone number to a total stranger, you should never do it online either. Take time to get to know this man first before you ever give any information that could make it possible for him or others to trace you. Do not tell them where you work, where you hang out or anything that can lead them straight to you. Be sure to use only the tools that the dating service you belong to provides. Be sure to check the dating service for private e-mail on their site and chat. If you do have to give out your e-mail address makes sure to use a free e-mail account like Yahoo or Google. This way your ISP address is not traceable. When it comes time for your first face-to-face meeting, make sure you have it in a public place during daylight hours. Either take a friend with you, or have them call you within a few minutes of meeting and again a little later. Always be sure that you are in control. Never let anybody pressure you into giving more information than you are comfortable giving.