What would men like to say if they could be completely open and honest with women? Here are some of the things to start.

It’s been something that has been around forever, what are men really thinking about when they are in relationships? What are they exactly thinking? We have identified four of the more important things:

1. Men are not afraid of commitments and long term relationships- they just need to be very sure that it is the right decision. In fact men are just as likely as women to prefer marriage rather than spending a lifetime of being single, and are just as serious about family relationships as women are. If the right woman comes along most men are open and willing to commit to a lifetime relationship.

2. Men need their freedom- and to some, most men have a fear of being trapped in a relationship, a lot of men will enter a commitment a little apprehensive to see if their woman is going to be overly possessive with them and always dictate what they can and can’t do, sometimes this can be misconstrued as a commitment phobia. Women that are secure and wise in their relationships will give their men plenty of space prior to marriage and after.

3. Yes, everything that women hear about the male ego- is right. A man’s ego works like a helium balloon in that it can be inflated and fly away or burst if the woman is not wise and realistic in her relationship ideas and plans. There is no man out there that likes to admit that if a woman deflates his ego that may just be the fatal blow that brings their relationship to an end. If a woman wants to "wow" her man and win him over, she will need to be able to feed his ego when necessary.

4. Men want to be able to discuss their goals and desires- without the fear of their woman acting in an irrational emotional manner. Men do have many things that they would like to open up and talk about to their woman but fear an emotional backlash from their partner that could cause the relationship to spiral out of control, such as being able to tell their partner if they are unsatisfied or skeptical about something such as small things like the outfit they are wearing or even if they are unorganized, constructive criticism like this can really stir the pot if their partner is insecure. It is a fact though that some men need to learn a lesson in being tactful in how they come across to their woman, this is especially important when they are trying to convey their opinion without upsetting the apple cart. Singles are having success everyday finding other like minded singles with online dating sites. Good Luck and Happy Online Personals Dating!