Does it ever feel like getting a date is nothing more than a pipe dream? If you’re like most women, your main objective in dating is to find a suitable companion that will truly appreciate you for who you are. Well the good news is that you don’t have to change everything about yourself and surrender your dignity just to get a date. In fact, getting asked out on dates doesn’t have to be difficult at all. The most important thing to remember about being more appealing to men is that in order to get the types of dates you want, you have to make yourself more datable. Here are 4 ways to have more dates without compromising your personality.

1. One of the first steps in making yourself more datable is examining your attitude. Because attitudes are so incredibly multi-faceted, let’s just take a look at some of the main attitude offenders. Are you overly negative or critical? Many men would rather not listen to their date complain and sarcastically criticize everything in her line of sight. Examining your attitude doesn’t mean you have to change everything about yourself, but it simply means that you should be aware of your attitude and try to keep a positive mindset.

2. Meet your goals. All men love women who are interesting. They love when a woman they are interested in is actively and passionately pursuing her goals. If you’re like most people, it can be difficult to focus your attention on one goal until it is accomplished, however, follow through very is important. Having a lot of different, unfinished goals will frustrate you in the long run because it will likely make you feel that you haven’t accomplished anything. When you are setting goals, the famous words of humorist, Josh Billings, are words that every woman should live by, "Be like a postage stamp. Stick to one thing until you get there."

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