From time to time, you’ll notice that there are men which have "unique charms" with women. They get women effortlessly and grab other guys target without dropping a sweat. Their presence alone can make a difference and women are "magically" drawn to them. Sounds familiar? Yes, they're the so called alpha male and no; they weren't born with that gift. They gained it through experiences. You can also learn how to become alpha male if you know the principles.

If you wish to learn how to become alpha male, this is the first rule: abandon beta male characteristic that may have implanted in you since you were a boy. I’m referring to most of the guys way of thinking currently; they desire the most beautiful girl they have seen but lack the confidence to put themselves on the same level as her.

The "you are so stunning with so many guys after you and I’m below you" concept is exactly why beta male only get leftover women. If you approaching a female and everything that you do (how you speak, your body language, and the way you treat her) reflect that idea, she will immediately looks at you as second-rate guy and reject you. In cases like this, the best thing that you can obtain is become his closest ‘guy friend’. She will speak to you about all her troubles but won’t permit you to go beyond that.

When all the attempts to attract her failed, many guys that don’t know how to become alpha male will turn to another typical tactic: buying her approval with money. A bucket of flowers, luxury dinner, become her chauffeur and drive her everywhere, buy her jewelry, dresses, bags, and so on. These things tend to backfire on you; she’ll believe that you’re being manipulative and trying to buy or attract her with cash.

Remember this: DO NOT buy a girl anything pricey except when she has done something to deserve it. Picture yourself as an alpha male where you don’t seek for her approval, but already have an enjoyable life where it is her loss if she doesn’t want to be a part of it.

The second rule on how to become alpha male is never let yourself fall to the "boring guy" category. Yes, perhaps you enjoy stock trading, but there is no point to discuss how the most recent policy affects your stocks and stuff like that. Safe those for your guy friend or you’ll end up being one of the men who is speaking by himself while his girlfriend chatting with another man over her cell phone.

Having passion is great and in fact, girls like a guy who has "life" and passion for his job. Nonetheless, women need excitement in the conversation; discuss your passion but rule out all the logical description and involve her in the conversation by asking her viewpoint on various things.

Physical contact is one way to keep your woman excited. The iron rule here is refrain yourself from ask her permission to do so. Yes, don’t ask "may I kiss you" or such. Doing something like that will kill the mood that you've been trying so hard to create.

Asking for her permission will only backfire on you. If she allows the physical contact, she's afraid that you'll see her as "cheap", thus it is safer for her to decline your offer. Rather than seeking for verbal permission, an alpha male will look for signs in her body language and strike at the right time; this is applied for kissing, touching, and even sex.