When a single man backs off in a relationship, often times the way a woman handles her feelings and expressions makes him want to back off even more. But if you know these three steps, you can take advantage of them and your connection with him will become even stronger and closer!

It's finally reality, you have met the man of your dreams and it appears you are compatible match with each other and you both have strong feelings for one another. You’re getting a lot of love and affection from him and then something goes wrong. Out of nowhere he starts withdrawing from you. He is not telling you anymore that he is looking forward to seeing you this weekend, not real talkative when you are talking on the telephone, his behavior quickly becoming unusual. Now you are starting to feel downright fearful the relationship is slipping away. A secret tip to making sure that his distant feelings are just temporary is to ease up your efforts to bring him back closer to you. This seems counter-productive to a relationship and really scary when you have feelings setting in that you may be losing your perfect match.

Here's how to give your perfect match some space and let you handle your own confused feelings so that he will on his own decide to come back through his own efforts:

1. It is not uncommon for a man to withdraw in a relationship!

Single men often experience the feeling of drifting away and it is a lot of times a natural occurrence even if he is truly in love with you. Single men that experience falling in love can give him feelings of uncertainty and possibly insecure so this can cause him to withdraw from the relationship somewhat in order to avoid these type of feelings. You’re match may appear like a yoyo and while he is trying to get a grip on his feelings and determine if he is committed to a long term relationship with you.

2. Create anxiety or tension so he comes back to you!

A single woman’s first reaction is usually to give in and try to close the relationship gap. This requires effort from you. And unfortunately, this many times will only push him further away and halts any attempts from him to come back. Why? Because by you making the initial effort you’re taking away the incentive for him to come back closer to you, he is now feeling that it is no longer his choice and terms and becomes feeling trapped and forced.

3. Make connections with him using you’re feelings to send him messages!

When a man does back off, it generates feelings from being uncertain, to anger, and even completely neglected by him. When he does make a move to come back into the relationship, you want to send clear messages that he has put you through a lot of mixed hurtful emotions and you don’t want him to think he can withdraw from the relationship anytime he feels necessary. Choosing your words and actions are imperative to help you reconnect with him while ensuring that he is totally aware of your hurt feelings when he withdraws from you. The most effective way to get his attention is to express your opinions and feelings without directly blaming him. Taking a negative situation and creating a positive experience with him will help him appreciate and realize the importance of being with you and that you are in fact a true asset to him. Giving him the feeling he must have you! Good Luck and Happy Online Personals Dating to all Singles!