It is not difficult to attract and seduce women when you know how. Knowledge is power and with the proper knowledge you will have the power to seduce women literally at will. Just take the time to learn the right way to do it and then put it into practice. While it may seem intimidating at first, with a little practice, it will soon become second nature.

There are three basic steps to attract and seduce women. Master these three simple steps and you will become a regular player, the envy of all your friends. There will always be a gorgeous woman or two on your arm.

Step 1. Approach her

I cannot begin to tell you how important the proper approach is. Did you know that you could blow your chances with her before you ever even open your mouth if you approach her wrong? Its true. Use the wrong approach and you will be going home alone, guaranteed.

But if you use the right approach, you can get your foot in the door and be much more likely to have a happy ending.

There are two main things to remember when you approach her. The first is your appearance and the second is body language.

You should always dress for the occasion and in accordance with the type of woman you want to attract. If you are not sure about what your appearance is saying about you to women, then ask one that you are comfortable talking to. Take their advice if you trust them. It could make a world of difference.

Body language is extremely important. It can make or break the deal. The right body language says to her that you are a confident man that gets what he wants. This is a HUGE turn on to women. There are certain gestures and movements that will draw her in to you and, conversely, there are gestures and movements that will repel her from you. The proper body language is one of the main ingredients to attract and seduce women.

Avoid body language that repels. Don’t move quickly and jerkily, bury your hands in your pockets, cross your arms, or smiling ridiculously (this makes you look needy). When talking to her, don’t stare at her, face her straight on, lean in towards her or get too close and invade her personal space.

Do use body language that attracts. Move slowly, fluidly and confidently. Keep your head up and shoulders back. Whenever you enter a room, walk in like you own the place. Keep an open posture. Spread out, take up room. This portrays confidence and women will absolutely eat it up. When talking to her, look directly in the eye when you want to make a point, but don’t constantly stare at her. Angle your body to hers and don’t face her directly. Lean away from her rather than towards her and try to appear only half interested in her.

You always need to be aware of what you are doing with your hands. Do not flail them around uselessly. Instead, use gestures that attract. For example, if the conversation allows, take your hand, bring it to your chest and then move it towards her. This will emphasize your point and create a connection with her at the same time.

The proper body language will lead to a good conversation and, ultimately, a happy ending.

I will discuss steps 2 and 3 in upcoming articles, so keep an eye out for them. In the meantime, check out some resources to learn more about the right body language to attract and seduce women.