Almost every one who is in a relationship has some break up experience in their life. Most of time, they do not know how to handle it or how to move on with their life after each break up.

How if you are one of those who want to win back your ex and willing to put in some effort to make that happen? Do you know what you should do to get back your ex?

As a matter of fact, majority of break ups can be salvaged - only if you know the steps that you need to take to get back with your ex. In this article, I'll share with you material and resources which i found really helpful in helping one to get back the ex.

Now, here are some tips which can help you get back your ex.

First, you must identify the cause of the break up. Although you would not be able to reverse the time or change the cause for the break up, but you will surely learn from the mistake and this would certainly help you in getting back your ex. Now, a break up may have been caused by one specific event, or from a series of behaviour or incident which your ex did not want to deatl with anymore. No matter what the reason was, you must find out the details so that you can learn and use it to win back your ex.

Second, you must make sure that you do not look needy. Although most of us feel that in order to win the ex back, we need to show our ex that we cannot live without them, there is no point of telling the ex so. What you should do is to remain strong. Act as if you are okay by your self. Portray to everyone around you that you are confident and happy with yourself. If you behave like a needy or desperate person, you will only push your ex further from you. So, to get back your ex, make sure you remain your confidence as that may make him crawl back to you. This is a very important point that you must know and manage. This one little technique can make your ex feel that they have made a mistake for breaking up with you and would want to get back with you. Yes, it is that powerful!

Third, contrary to the popular belief, trying to make your ex jealous is one of the worst things you can do if you want to get back with your ex. That merely shows to your ex that you have moved on and that he should as well. What you should instead be doing is, make him think that he is the best thing that had happened in your life, and that nobody could replace or compare to what he had given you. By this, you are boosting his confidence without seeming needy. This would soon make him realize that the two of you were a perfect match despite some small conflicts or fight. At the same time, do not get upset if he is seeing someone else. You would not be able to stop it no matter how hard you try. Trying to stop him from seeing someone else would only make things worse as it would make you look needy and desperate.

Fourth, discuss with your ex to find out the reason that cause the break up. This is one of the best ways to resolve any problem you may have in order to help you get back your ex.

In short, getting back with your ex is not rocket science. What you need to do is make sure that you behave yourself appropriately to make him realize that he is better off with you. If you act needby, desperate or childish, this would only make things worse and needless to say, you would not get back your ex.