You broke up with your ex girlfriend. Now, you may want to get over with her but you may also be still deeply in love with her and would like to get her back. The question is how? How you can get back your ex girlfriend and make her fall in love with you again?

First, you should take some time to evaluate the situation. Ask yourself whether you really want to get back with your ex or you should get over with her. Sometimes, when we end a relationship, for certain reasons, maybe for being not used to live without that person, we would want to get back with that person. But as time goes by, we may realize that these feelings are only temporary and it may be best to get over with the relationship at this time. So, you should give yourself some time to assess your situation and what you really want. Take time to think through it carefully whether you really want your ex girlfriend back.

If you decide to get your ex girlfriend back, please read on.

To win your ex girlfriend back, you must be patient and persistent. You must no be pushy, hasty or be a wuss. No matter how much you love your ex, you have to appear strong, confident and in control. After you have evaluated and decided that you want to win your ex back, you have to rebuild your friendship with her. You have to spend time with your ex as friends, not more than that. Keep it casual and light. Hang out with her when you can and rebuild the bond. This will keep away any hostility between you and her that arose from the break up.

By rebuilding the bond, you would discover each other once again. This is very important as to get your ex back, you must work on the friendship and rebuild the bond first before you can proceed to rebuild the romance.

Next, have some casual dates with your ex. This can be just by yourself or with a group of friends. What you need to do is to keep in touch with your ex constantly. Be in your ex's presence. Make her feel comfortable with your presence. Remember, never force the relationship back on your ex or make her feel pressured. Give her the freedom to adjust to the "new" relationship, new chemistry that she found in you after the break out. Give her sufficient time to see that you have really changed and to discover (again) what she really likes about you. To get your ex girlfriend back, you have to give her that assurance before she can change her mind to get back with you.

Also, space your dates. Do not try to fit in many dates within a short period of time. Instead, space between the dates. Where possible, wait for her to call or initiate the date. This signifies her acceptance towards the new you.

Finally, always remember that patience is the key to get your ex girlfriend back. The main strategy to win your ex back is to win her back on her own terms. So, be very very patient with your ex. That way, she will soon realize and be touched by your sincerity. Patience will eventually win you her trust, friendship and the romance that you want. Do not rush. Hastiness may create pressure on the ex and may destroy any chances of you winning back your ex girlfriend back. So, go slow but steady and persistently.

The above are the three ways to get back your ex. Remember to always assess your situation whether you really want to win back your ex girlfriend. If the answer is yes, take steps to rebuild the bonding and friendship with her. Win her trust and acceptance towards you. And remember to be patient in the process of getting back your ex.

Now that I have given you 3 points that you need to bear in mind to get your ex girlfriend back, this is not all. They are merely among many other things that you need to do to get back your ex girlfriend.