In this day and age no guy has to ‘settle’ with a woman that doesn’t make him happy. You can find every kind of woman out there for your needs, desires, and wants. Chances are when you find someone who fits your description of a perfect woman; you will fit her description of a perfect man as well. Impossible you say? Then you have been taking all the wrong steps to meeting women that fits you.

First, you have to go to the places where your type will frequent. If you are looking for a woman who wants to have children and stay home, then don’t go to the local strip club to pick up a woman. I’m not saying that nice girls will not be at all kinds of places, but I am saying you have more of a chance of finding a nice girl at church or on a dating site. Alternatively, if you want a freak in the bed who doesn’t want children then you have to look at places that have women of that manner. Up your chances by looking in the right places first.

Second, you have to take your time to make sure that her beliefs and desires match up with yours. Too often people rush into serious relationships without finding out who the other person really is first, and end up disappointed down the road. So ask the serious questions that matter to you. Do they want children? Do they see themselves living in Hawaii or Alaska when they are older? Cover every area you can think of that may cause a huge issue in the future, and address it with your new woman.

Thirdly, make sure you are happy together. You may have all the same beliefs and goals in life, but if you don’t make each other laugh, and truly make each other happy, then your life is going to be an agreeable, but boring, life.

If she doesn’t make you feel good about yourself then that should be another deal breaker. After all, you are going to be with this woman for the rest of your life, and you want someone who is going to make your feel great about yourself while you have blast with her.

Lastly, take some time before proposing. Form a committed relationship that is based on all of the above traits and let it ride for a while. Even the most prepared person can make a mistake. If one of you wasn’t being honest with the other it will come out in time. So by waiting you up your chances of making sure that the connection is real and that the feelings are honest, and you will improve your chances of staying together for a long and happy lifetime.