It is not easy to get back your ex girlfriend. Those who have experienced it would easily understand what I'm saying here. You are not alone if you feel as though it just keeps getting harder and harder for you to get back your ex girlfriend. You called her over and over again. Hoping she'll tell you that she is coming back to you the next time she picks up your call. You texted her messages 5 times a day. Telling her how much you are in love with her and begging her to reconsider taking you back. You write love letters, buy her gifts, trying to convince her that you are the one for her...If you are doing any of these and you think that will help you to get your ex girlfriend back, you are dead wrong!

All you are doing above is merely telling her over and over again that you are not worthy of her. You are also helping her to reinforce her decision to end the relationship for GOOD! Its time to learn the right ways of winning your ex girlfriend back by using right methods and effective ways.

First, you need to "disappear" from her life for a period of time. You need to give her time and chance to "miss" you. Leave her alone for a while. Let her spend some lonely time herself. Only then, she'll have the "opportunity" to mesmerize about the time and the memory when you two were together. That way, she'll probably "miss" you and do not mind to see or spend some time with you the next time you contact her. That will make your effort to win your ex girlfriend back easier.

Second, you need to rebuild the bond, trust and friendship with your ex girlfriend. How? You have to evaluate what went wrong and what caused your break up with her. Is there anything you can change in yourself or the relationship should you get your ex back? If there is, send the message across to your ex girlfriend that you will or is now a changed man. Let her see the new you. Let her feel your attractiveness and fall in love with you (once) again. If you used to be a playboy, do something serious to change this image. Show her that you are no longer a playboy and that you are now a man who is serious and faithful in a relationship.

Third, "create" a false impression that she cannot have you. Strange but it always work. Have you ever felt you want something more when you know you can't have it? Sounds familiar? The same rule applies here. When a girl feels that she cannot have you, naturally she'll feel that she wants you more. To get back your ex girlfriend, you want her to feel that you are not trying to win her back but just trying to be playful and flirty with her. The guessing game makes the game more exciting and increases your chances of getting back your ex.

Finally, you must have a system that really works to get back your ex girlfriend.