Relationships bind much faster nowadays, based on each and any individual’s availability to interact and communicate with other people. Therefore, introverts and shy people only lose if they do not try to work a little on their personality while sociability most of the times equals flirting. Moreover, these techniques that give you the opportunity to move closer to a person you like also come with other benefits. If you do not belong to those that were born with the art of flirting in their blood, you should definitely learn how to do this, and that is what this article is all about.

Why flirting is the first communication channel men and women are choosing, you might ask. Here are four simple answers below:

1. By flirting, self-confidence grows higher. Let’s face it: each person likes to be admired and liked by others. For many folks, flirting is just a game through which they try to get positive feedback on their behaviour or qualities.

2. We are recognized as "nice people" if we do not exaggerate, of course. However, jokes and innocent teasing are easing the sometimes "odd situations" and can build your reputation as a communicative and sociable person.

3. It’s the perfect way to get closer to the person we like and then flirting steps over being just a game and becomes a perfect weapon of seduction. Can be just a fun conversation or a small note to grab the attention of the one you might be interested in, this can be the perfect ice-breaker and the situation will turn in your favour.

4. Flirting is a way to discover whether we are compatible with a person or not. Of course physical appearance plays a major role, however most of the times this is not enough. If you laugh at the same jokes, if you like the same things, you both might be on the same track...

Now that you all know why flirting is so great, how do you do it in the right way? There is always the danger of falling into ridiculous, this is something you are not after, right?

• Always stay under the limit: vulgarity has nothing in common with the sex appeal so try to censor yourself, at least for the start; never ever confuse flirting with dirty jokes, even if you are on an adult dating site

• Don’t push it: if you see no response from the other person or if she/he feels uncomfortable with your flirt just stop it and move forward;

• Do not flirt if you already have a partner: this is just a common sense rule; however, if you join an adult dating site, it is natural that most of you already have a partner, right?

• Attitude is the one that makes a difference: some people are really not made for flirting thus they should not try to flirt if they know they cannot handle this; try to stay as natural as you can be;

• Flirting always gets two kind of feedbacks: positive or negative; learn from those and make your next move based on the responses received;

• Humor+eye contact: nuclear blast! Women are always attracted by funny guys and by guys denoting interests through eye contact