What usually happens to you when you see a woman you really are attracted to and you think that she is exactly what you are looking for? Do you know exactly what to say and do to make her see that you are a desirable guy to her? If you are like most men, then the answer is probably... not so much. You probably end up feeling as though there was so much more that you could have said and done to try and 'win her over.' What if I told you that trying to win her over was probably what is getting in your way?

What happens to most men when they interact with a woman they find extremely attractive to them is, they end up trying so hard to be impressive and to win her over... they ignore all of the clues that she gives off that would help them do exactly that. So, the first thing that you need to do is to become more aware of the fact that she is probably leaving little clues that you need to pick up on and use them to help you make your connection with her much stronger.

Here are some tips on how to make a woman feel as though you are desirable to HER:

1. Listen to what she says when you are talking to her.

Lots of times, guys will get kind of trapped in their own mind when talking to a woman, and while they may be kind of hearing what she says, most of it goes in one ear and out the other. Stop all of that noise inside your mind and really pay attention to what she is saying when you are talking to her. I guarantee that you will start to pick up on little things that she says that you can build on and make whatever attraction she might feel seem even stronger to you.

2. Don't try so hard to qualify for her.

This is a really common thing that men will do when they really like a woman. They instantly get into this zone where they are trying to qualify themselves for her, to make themselves seem more and more desirable. The thing is, the harder you try to do this, the lower your perceived value in her eyes becomes. Think about it like this, if you were talking to a woman and she was going on and on about how great she was and how much she had in common with you, don't you think at some point it would get a little tiring to hear that over and over? That's how she feels when you over qualify yourself.

3. Pay attention to he body language and respond to that more than her words.

Learning how to vibe with someone else's body language can be a little tough at first, but when you get it, it will be pretty easy to respond to it and interpret what she really is feeling and thinking inside her mind. It's kind of like having a little cheat sheet of insight into what she is actually thinking and feeling so that you seem to know all of the right things to say and do at just the right time.