You goal when trying to attract a man should be to have him thinking about how attracted he is to you and how interested he is in you, right? Well you can do just that by using the right kind of eye contact with him and ensuring that his eyes are constantly being treated to a visual delight that gets his mind working and processing images that will ensure his attraction towards you. Ever heard a man say that he couldn't get over her eyes? The right kind of eye contact can help you be that woman.

One way to do this is by bringing out your bedroom eyes. Bedroom eyes are sexy to a man and can create an excitement inside of him similar to as if you are in the act of being intimate with each other.

One aspect of bedroom eyes is that in the bedroom your pupils are naturally bigger because you are excited and you are (most likely) in a dimly light room. Both of those things contribute to enlarging your pupil size. Your pupil size has a lot to do with attraction and it has been proven that the larger the pupil the more attracted someone is to that person.

So if you are not in the bedroom and you are in the full light of day then you will have to try to create the enlarged pupils by thinking exciting and stimulating thoughts to encourage your pupils to grow larger. These should be thoughts that cause a high amount of excitement or passion inside of you. This shouldn't be that hard to do around a guy you are attracted to though as you can just picture you and him having a great time together in the bedroom. That should be all it takes.

The other aspect of bedroom eyes is the actual gaze itself. Think about how you look at a lover in the bedroom and try to copy that look without looking to creepy. For instance, open your eyes a little wider to create the look of excitement or enjoyment. Or look through the top or corner of your eyes while squinting a little to create the look of intensity.

You can also maintain his gaze for a while and then let him see you checking out his physical features. This will excite him and get his mind moving in the right direction to create that attraction towards you.

Start by maintaining eye contact with one of the techniques above. Once you have him mesmerized with your gaze, and you are sure he is going to maintain eye contact, let him see you move your gaze to his lips and then back to his eyes. Then maybe look down at his hands while he is talking and then back to his eyes.

Don't look away from his eyes for too long or you may lose that connection that only direct eye contact can bring, but do let him see that you are interested in other parts of him. Chances are his mind will get excited and he will be thinking about you that night before bed, and in the morning when he wakes up.