You are about to learn one of the most powerful of all the flirting techniques for creating attraction between you and a girl.

Once you master this flirting technique, you'll be able to create powerful feelings of attraction in a girl towards you.

Are you ready to hear what it is?

This mysterious flirting technique is called the "Push Pull."

The ides behind Push Pull is that if you show too much interest in a girl (i.e. give her too many compliments, being to available) she will eventually become disinterested because you are no longer a challenge.

On the other end, if you are too aloof and uninterested, she will get tired of it too and eventually leave to go find some other guy who will give her more attention.

But Magic Can Happen When You...

Strike the perfect balance between showing her interest and pulling away and making her wonder. She will be constantly off-balance, not knowing if you like her or not.

This mysterious, unpredictable qualify is very attractive to a women. She'll find herself thinking about you, wondering if you like her, and she'll find herself growing incredibly attracted to you.

A great analogy for this effect is a cat and a toy string. (Some of you might know this as the "Cat String Theory.")

Imagine you are holding a piece of string and dangling it in from of a cat. If you hold the string too far out of the cat's reach, it will lose interest and just start to lick itself.

On the other hand, if you just give the string to the cat and let it have as much as it want, the cat will also lose interest and once again resume licking itself.

But if you keep the string close in enough to keep the cat interested but far enough to make it work for it, it will go crazy for the string. Make sense now?

I love pussy cats, don't you?

What How Does This Apply To Flirting Over Text?

Well, whenever possible you want to be playful and teasing with her. Send her messages that both shows that you like her, but also that you like to bust her balls.

Here's an example of what I'm talking about:

"You know, out of all the Stacy's I know (Stacy is her name), I think you are my favorite."

Notice that this statement has an element of pull: you are saying that she's your favorite Stacy. But it also has an element of push: you are telling her that there are other girls in your life and that she is not special.

Here's another example:

"Hey, I was just thinking of you. Wish you were here...so you cook me something and do my dishes."

Again, we started with a compliment and then pulled a bait and switch and teased her a bit. It's important that you put the smiley or winking face at the end in order to soften the statement a bit. Otherwise it might come off as too harsh.

Most guys tented to a have problem with being too nice and too complimentary to a girl, especially to a girl that you like, so the best way to re-adjust is to add in some teasing and takeaways.