There is an art form to almost anything that you can think of in life and as such, there is an art form to knowing how to approach women at the right time and in a way that makes you appear to be a welcome surprise that they are glad came into their life. You are not going to get better at this by sitting at home and reading stuff on a computer, though that is a good way to get started. You are only going to get better at this by going out to places where you know that there are going to be women around you and then making your approach slowly and surely until you master the art of it. It all comes down to practice and the man that knows how to approach women really well is the man that has practiced more than others have.

While you might consider yourself to be an amateur right now, in time, all of that can change. You can do what you want to rationalize why you are not good at approaching women, but I bet that most of it just comes down to the fact that you don't practice this enough. When I first decided that I would get better with women, the first thing that I did was to make it a practice to approach women whenever I saw one that I thought was attractive. Even if I did not have the nerve, I would push myself and I have to say that this is why I can now make the approach and even seduce a woman if the mood strikes me. It all comes down to the amount of time that you put into the craft and the amount of practice that you have in it. It's not about luck, as much as it is about having the nerve to make your approach even when you feel like you are bound to get rejected.

When you feel like you have all of the confidence in the world and you are ready to practice the art of getting things right with women - that is when you will start to have some real fun when it comes to dating. And that is what will help you to really not just get better at dating, it will also help you to have more fun with your life. And that is what you really want, am I right?