It's not unusual for a guy to feel like he doesn't quite understand women and what they want. It's actually quite typical for a guy to feel that way. You don't have to feel weird about wanting to know what women want, because there are plenty of men who feel just like you do. And I know, it can seem at times as if women don't even know what they want, so that just seems to add to the confusion that you feel. You don't have to stay in the dark, you can find out some clues as to what women really desire from a man so that you can understand females a little bit better.

Here are four tips that should help you figure things out:

1. Women usually want to spend time with a guy who knows how to hold a good conversation with them.

Unless you have drop dead good looks, you have to be able to talk to a woman and hold a good conversation with her. You have to be able to win her over with your personality and you have to be able to give her a reason to want to spend more time with you and that can easily be done just by mastering the art of good conversation. You don't want to talk about things that you know are going to make her feel like she is bored. You are going to want to speak about things that really interest her and even fascinate her.

2. They want to know that they can have a life of their own as well as with you.

It's good to let a woman go out and hang out with her friends and that is one of the things that you need to be able to show her. One of the things that a lot of women do worry about is ending up with the kind of boyfriend that won't let them do their own thing, and that is an impression that you don't want to give off. You need to be cool with the fact that you have a girlfriend that goes out and has her own life.

3. They want you to have your own life as well.

One of the most attractive things to most women is when you are able to do your own thing. Having your own hobbies and interests is a good thing and it also helps to make you seem more interesting. Going back to the first tip about being able to have a good conversation, that's much easier to do when you have interesting things to do in your free time.

4. Women want to be with a guy who knows how to kiss well.

Yes, the kissing thing does matter to most women and you have to be able to show that you have kissing skills. Now, I know that most men are going to assume that they know what to do when it comes to kissing a woman, but you might be surprised at what a lot of women say. A lot of women will reveal that the guys that they have dated haven't all been good kissers and if you can't do that - you don't stand much of a chance. You definitely want to be known as a guy who knows how to kiss a woman.