What Is God’s Will or Plan for My Life?


  • Author James Rondinone
  • Published December 24, 2022
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PART 4 TESTIMONY                       

What Is God’s Will or Plan for My Life?

What is God’s will or plan for our life? There are two ways we could answer this. The first is the general plan meaning that it involves certain spiritual attainments to which God would have each of us aspire. The second is the particular plan, which involves the Holy Spirit working individually in each of our lives to provide us with guidance in many areas. That would include finances, friendships, marriage partners, where we should reside geographically, the conviction of sin, illumination of Scripture, exercising our spiritual gifts, etc. Which one should we focus on initially? I believe the general one. Why? Because as you will see, if we are able to participate in God’s general plan, this will provide for us the proper foundation for His individual plan for our life.


What are those scriptural declarations which are considered as a part of God’s general plan for our life?

We’ll begin in the book of Romans.


Romans 8:29-30

For whom he did foreknow, he also did predestinate to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brethren. Moreover whom he did predestinate, them he also called: and whom he called, them he also justified: and whom he justified, them he also glorified.

God the Father knew beforehand (foreknowledge), who would respond to His invitation of salvation by repenting and believing in His Son as to who He is and what He has accomplished. Therefore, He chose (elected) whosoever beforehand (before they were ever born). In time, God instituted His plan called predestination. This involves many events, as well as the decisions that mankind would make, especially concerning salvation. The goal of predestination is for people to become saved and subsequently fulfill God’s plan for their life.

If we were living during the time when Israel first became a nation, the Age of Israel, we would be talking about God executing a plan through the institution of the Mosaic Law that would allow the Jews to believe in Him as He was revealed. But because we are living in the time of the church, we will be talking about a plan that has to do with people responding to the gospel message. In this dispensation, once a person is saved, one of God’s desires for him/her is to be conformed to the image of His Son.


What does it mean for a Christian to be conformed to the image of God’s Son?

The word conformed refers to the process of sanctification, whereby the saint is transformed in his [her] inner heart life to resemble.37 To resemble what or whom? That they should resemble the image of God’s Son. The word image refers to character. Where is this idea of character derived from in Scripture? It’s found in the book of Galatians.

Galatians 5:22-23

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law.

The word fruit means the Spirit’s influences, spiritual qualities, or graces which relate to Christian character, or the unity of the character of the Lord.

So, there you have it. One of the goals of God’s general plan for us is that we would be conformed (i.e., a transformation would take place in our inner heart life) whereby we resemble the image (the likeness; the character) of the Lord. This character refers to the fruit, the graces, or the spiritual qualities of the Holy Spirit.

What else is considered a part of God’s general plan for our life?

Please go to the book of 1 Thessalonians.


1 Thessalonians 4:1-4

1 Furthermore then we beseech you, brethren, and exhort you by the Lord Jesus, that as ye have received of us how ye ought to walk and to please God, so ye would abound more and more. 2 For ye know what commandments we gave you by the Lord Jesus.       

Paul declared to the saints of the church at Thessalonica that as they received (learned) from him, Silvanus, and Timotheus as to how they ought to walk (behave toward one another) so as to please God, the hope for this quality of life is that it would abound (increase) more and more. He then reminded them to recall the commandments (the instructions) regarding personal purity (as to how they should live). And then he proceeded to tell them the will of God for their lives.

3 For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication:

The will or general plan of God for their lives is their sanctification (that they should be holy).

How is sanctification accomplished?

4 That every one of you should know how to possess his vessel in sanctification and honour;

This is accomplished when each of them is able to learn and know how38 to possess (be controlled through God’s power; gain mastery over; exercise self-control over) over his vessel (his body; his sexual desires) in sanctification (behavior that is set apart to the Lord in its motivation) and honour (recognized by others as intrinsically worthy of respect39).

While we are not told how to possess (gain mastery over) our body (sexual desires), we are told that this is God’s will or plan for the life of every Christian.

There is one more very important spiritual reality that is God’s general will or plan for our lives.

This is found in the book of Ephesians.


Ephesians 5:18

And be not drunk with wine, wherein is excess; but be filled with the Spirit

We are commanded to be filled with the Spirit. The word filled refers to the believer being under the Spirit’s control. It also suggests the idea that this condition occurs because the believer has yielded him/herself to Him. And when we are yielded to Him, He is said to control us in our mind, emotions, and will.40 As we learn how to consistently be under His rule, we will increasingly manifest His fruit.

This doesn’t tell us how we get to be yielded to Him, but what it does convey to us is when we are, we will be evidencing to others His spiritual qualities of character.

Some would say there is so much more to what God’s general will or plan is for our lives. They will stress obedience to God’s Word as it pertains to street witnessing, prayer, laying down our lives for one another, visiting the orphan and widows, providing financially, etc. While I would agree that we should be responsive to these opportunities to express Christ likeness to others, I would also contend that without learning how to be conformed to the image of God’s Son, how to have mastery over our sexual desires, and how to be filled with the Spirit all the actions that we attempt to perform will be done in self-power according to the inclinations of the flesh. Instead of revealing Christ likeness to others, we will only reveal the person we used to be before we were saved. So, what we’re really are talking about here is our testimony; as to whether it is reflective of the old sin nature or the new spiritual nature.

Does our testimony come from obedience to God’s Word and translate to doing this or doing that? Or should our testimony start from within? Being transformed from within will reveal Christ likeness in everything we do. A lack of inward transformation will expose what appears to be godly actions before those in leadership and our fellow believers by being void of godly character that exemplifies the fruit of the Spirit.

Now that we know what the general will or plan of God is for our life let’s take a look at an attempt to address the second part of the final comment that someone who attended the church ministry expressed in the article, “Sex Abuse & Gay Conversion Therapy: The Dark Past of Justin Bieber’s Megachurch Hillsong.”41 The second part of the final comment is, there are people who don’t recognize that any relationship that I have with a man … would be full of love, equal to any other.42 In response to this, what needs to be understood are the specifics of God’s plan. This believer was saying that he considered his relationship with a man as being part of God’s plan. When we become saved, there are a lot of things that we are not sure about as to whether we should continue in them or not. Am I allowed to continue to drink alcohol? Am I allowed to get a divorce? What about having a relationship outside of marriage?

Where do we find the answers to these questions? We find them in five avenues: (1) attending a church that teaches on these topics (2) reading Christian books (3) watching a pertinent video on such (4) the Bible and (5) our own study of the Scriptures.

The question we are really attempting to answer based on the second part of this believer’s comment is, what is God’s perspective concerning sexual relationships now that we have become a Christian?

When Jesus said, to love one another, as I have loved you in John 15:12, does this mean that the love we should be operating in condones fornication, adultery, homosexuality, pedophilia, etc.?

Like any other question that you or I have, the answer should be found in the Scriptures. The Epistles, which are letters written to the fledgling churches and individual believers in the earliest days of Christianity, contains answers to what constitutes sinful behavior, how we are to act toward fellow believers and unbelievers concerning it, and how we can grow spiritually. 

Are you ready to take a look at what the Word of God says and find out what it means to love one another with God’s love?


37 Weust’s Word Studies from the Greek New Testament.

38 Robertson’s New Testament.

39 The Bible Exposition Commentary/New Testament.

40 The Bible Exposition Commentary/New Testament.

41 Sex Abuse & Gay Conversion Therapy.

42 Sex Abuse & Gay Conversion Therapy.


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My name is James Rondinone. I am a husband, father, and spiritual leader.

I grew up in Massachusetts and began my own spiritual journey early on in life.

I attended Bible college, having completed a two-year Christian Leadership Course of Study and graduated as valedictorian (Summa Cum Laude).

Studying and teaching the Word of God has been a passion of mine for over 20 years.

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