For many men a younger wife-partner, or lover is something to strive for, something very attractive, or for some a dream, or fantasy, but what are the realities, implications and practicalities of such a union?

As the CEO of an International dating & matchmaking agency based in The Ukraine I know from personal experience and observation that the dream of many men for a younger partner can be achieved, but let us first look at this issue from both sides. Whilst the ladies registered to my agency are between 18 and 50 years old, it is very noticable, particularly with the younger ones that they seek a man older than themselves.

Why? What is the attraction of an older partner for these ladies? The first issue to bear in mind is that Russian, Ukrainian ladies are unique in that they seem to mature at a remarkably young age. Quite why this should be is not clear to me, but it is an undeniable fact. Perhaps it is a cultural, historical, or genetic evolution within these countries. Of course the physical & material hardship within these countries must play a part.

Many of these ladies embark on educating themselves at what is by Western standards, a very young age and many have completed a university course and obtained a diploma by the age of 22 years of age, they take very seriously their education. Gaining the best education achievable and a valid and profesional qualification is very important for the majority of these ladies and this normally comes before thoughts of marraige.

Contrary to the understanding of many, the majority of these ladies would like to pursue a career even after marriage and would like to maintain some intellectual challenge in their life, in preference to being totally dependent upon their partner.

It is a misconception to believe that the attraction for these ladies, of a older partner is only financial, but it is fair to say it can be a consideration. Quite simply these ladies are too mature, too smart for men of their own age. From my observations I will list some of the qualities they seek from an older partner, some of the attractions from their perspectives.

These ladies need and deserve respect, they are intelligent, aware and loving. Respect them for what they are. Someone that knows how to romance and treat a beautiful woman. Someone that can support them emotionally, spiritually and materially and someone that will listen to them value their opinions and value them as a human being.

Many of these ladies are very beautiful, they know that! What they crave and need is that their inner qualities be appreciated, that they be valued as a human being. So clearly the desires and aspiration of any man seeking a younger partner can be achieved, but what are the implications involved?

If the age difference is 20 years or more they will need to take care of themselves, keep fit and keep healthy (something many men in the west are doing). Be flexible and open. You and your partner will be at different stages within the cycle of life and she might well prefer to go out more, socialise more and lead a more active life than you. Can you adapt to that?

As I have mentioned from my observations many of these Russian, Ukrainian ladies share a maturity some 10 years in advance of their actual years, so if you conversely feel younger than your physical age you can meet in the middle.

There is a popular belief now in the West that 50 years old is the new 30 and 60 the new 40. This in my opinion must depend upon the individual and must depend upon the lifestyle and attitudes and personality of each individual man., but there is no reason for a mixed age relationship not to work, not to be successful.

What is the food and drink of any successful relationship, what can sustain a relationship in a difficult moment? Mutual respect, understanding and to some extent selflessness. Why should a relationship of differing ages not work? In many ways it has a better chance of success.

One final point, the chances are if your partner is Russian, or Ukrainian she is going to look very good and attract a lot of attention from other guys and let's face it most women enjoy being admired yes? It makes them feel good.

Do not feel vulnerable, remember she choose you and so far that you give to your love that which you yourself need, respect, kindness and support she is yours. Slavic women are arguably the most loyal on the planet and so far that you do not drive her away she is yours and yours only.