Dating Advice........Russian Women

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  • Author Terrence Aubrey
  • Published April 4, 2008
  • Word count 1,295

Are you seeking love and a loving relationship? Have you considered a Russian, or Ukrainian Partner? Here are a few reasons why you might like to consider this option. There are many very beautiful and genuine ladies from these countries very open to finding their partner from a foreign land and they share many qualities. Among these qualities you will find femininity, intelligence, a natural elegance and sense of style and maybe most important of all a strong commitment to family values. Equally you will discover that these ladies are unique, different and this article will attempt briefly to describe these distinctions and the reasons for it.....

Strange as it may seem, due to many varying circumstances Russian & Ukrainian women actually are different. Actually they are different in many very attractive and adorable ways and being aware of these differences, these distinctions can most certainly make your quest more successful, more certain. Why are they different and what are the differences? Because these countries were effectively closed to the rest of the world until relatively recently, these ladies have grown up and developed within systems devoid of foreign influences and this is very noticeable and in many ways attractive.

Within the limitations of this short article, I will list some of the most apparent differences that so many of these ladies share.

  1. It is fair to say that in general moral and family values are higher here than in many areas of the world. The development of equality for women in these countries seems to have followed a different route, a different path and so many of these ladies are proudly feminine. They share no inhibitions in dressing, grooming and presenting themselves so as to highlight their feminism, sensuality and beauty.

  2. Seeking the best education possible is for many the first priority and it is something taken very seriously. One of the many misconceptions we in the west shared was that the communist system contained nothing of value, that there was nothing we could learn, or benefit from. The education system is a good example. The education system available, particularly at university level is second to none and many highly qualified and talented people have come through this system. In fact it seems to have contributed to a society of arguably way above average intelligence.

  3. Having achieved their University diploma, or often during this period, thoughts of marriage and starting both a home and family begin to arise. It is said that Slavic women make the best partners and wives, why should this be? It stems from their cultural inheritence and the family values within which they have been brought up. From a young age they have been taught that a happy and cosy home, a loving and secure family base is the formula to a happy and successful life. It is because of this that they seem willing to go that extra mile, make that extra effort to sustain and support a loving relationship.

  4. Once she has settled and established herself in her new life, her new culture and lifestyle, she will quite likely want to contribute in every way to her new life, her new family. You will actually discover, much to the surprise of many men, that many of these ladies are not simply looking for a man to support them through life. No many would like to utilise either their qualification, or their intelligence to contribute in every way to their new family.

  5. In general these ladies are not wealthy, but equally, they are by nature very generous. The willingness to share that which undoubtably has required much effort and time to aquire is very attractive. No it is fair to say that for most aquiring material possessions is not a major part of their agenda. Again this is in general not true. Almost in contradiction to the above they will need to know you are financially secure before committing themselves to you. If you can put yourself in their situation, this contradiction is not so difficult to understand. In general they share a strong sense of right and wrong, what is attractive and what is ugly. Briefly the values they generally hold dear can be described as:- Kindness, honesty and generosity (of heart), a serious and responsible attitude, a sense of humour and a passion for life.

So how can this information help you in finding your Russian soul mate?

  1. Congratulate her on her beauty, but do not dwell excessively upon this aspect solely. They know they are beautiful and in general seek a partner that will love them for what they are and who they are, not simply for their beauty.

  2. During the process of romancing one of these ladies many men are surprised to discover the depth of intelligence and intuition many of these ladies possess. Equally her point of view, her perspective might well be very different to that which you are acustomed to. The refreshing clarity, validity and individuality of these viewpoints will be yet another pleasant surprise to each man in its own way. In many ways listening has a greater value during your courtship than talking. As her confidence and trust in you grows and develops allow her to open as the beautiful flower she is. She will gradually reveal to you her hopes, dreams and yes, even her fears. Respond to her openness and honesty, reciprocate and soon you will know and understand both what she really believes to be important and her true values.

  3. The fact that you are in the fortunate position to try for a Russian Bride does by its nature indicate that you are financially secure. Clearly the expenses involved are incomparable to meeting the "girl next door". Reasure her that yes you are in a position to both help her move to your country and even more important help her establish her new life within your country. Remember she will be considering leaving her home, country and friends. Its important to realise what a huge step she will be taking. Leaving her home, family, culture and friends, effectively leaving behind her all that she has known. It is why she will need to feel very secure and confident both of your love and commitment to her and equally that you are in the position to help her move to your country and start her new life. Can you give her that reassurance? Can you guarantee her that sureness.

  4. Would you be happy for her to either continue her career in her new country, or find a new way of using her intelligence in finding a new occupation? Whilst these ladies are open to a new life in a new country with her partner, remember this is a huge step she will be taking. Engage with her, ask her what she hopes for in her new life, what goals she holds dearly and between you disscuss everything related to your new life together. From her point of view this will show her that you are both serious and that you care. It will be very reasuring for her.

  5. Be sensitive, if you have a huge house, car, or income let her discover it herself naturally. Contrary to many misconceptions in the West material status is not a preoccupation within these countries. No it is fair to say that human qualities are of far greater consideration in the assessment of the suitability of a possible future partner. Remember that whilst these ladies are not wealthy they are very rich in many deeper and very attractive and admirable qualities.

There are many beautiful and smart Russian and Ukrainian ladies genuinely searching for love and a serious relationship and with care, luck, patience and respect you can find your perfect partner

Through his work as the CEO of an International Dating and Matchmaking Agency based in The Ukraine Terrence Aubrey has learnt much about Russian & Ukrainian women. He has written many informative articles on this subject. Learn more at:- http://www.confidentialmatchmakers.com

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