Many romantic couples believe that living out their sexual fantasies can actually bring them closer to one another and provide fond memories. Few couples though tend to differ from this. There are situations where realized fantasies can force lovers to go their separate ways. I advice that while some sexual fantasies should be realized, others should be left to live only in our minds. Such fantasies like threesome, orgies and swapping partners should never be realized since they are risky. It becomes dangerous when the fantasy involves a third party. There are open-minded and understanding couples who can deal with it without any hitch. Some sexual fantasies can spice up your sex life to unimaginable levels such as the ones written about here below.

One of the sexual fantasies that can be safely lived out is making your own movie at home. You and your partner will feel like real porn stars whenever you watch the movie. Do not show any facial job or anal action since this is a private action for two people. You are the director, producer and the star so you need to be really smart while at it. Set up the camera in such an angle that it captures your antics. Control the everything to ensure that the moans and groans are well recorded. The movie helps you to communicate with your partner and get in to the mood whenever you watch it.

Some beneficial sexual fantasies involve either dominating or submitting to your partner. Let her strip in front of you. You might choose to be controlled or to control your partner. This can turn a dull experience into something out of this world. If one partner leads and only gives orders as the other one follows and obeys her/his "master", the scenario can simply ignite sparks of passion that no one knew existed. In this sexual mode you can easily reveal your fetishes which should be within reason and also give in to your secret sexual desires. Hand your woman the whip and watch her unleash her fantasies. While dressed in an easy-access wear head out to a nice night club most preferably an exclusive place for horny couples and single people. What you are up to is to realize a fantasy in which you are able to make love as you watch others while they watch you too. You have to be keen not to cross with the club management since some clubs do not allow people to get nasty while others do not mind.

Give aforementioned sexual fantasies a shot. Take your girl out to a strip joint. It might turn out to be one of your fondest memories. At first the woman might appear hesitant but let her understand that you do not want to stare at other women. All you want is to watch her reaction as the event unfolds. This might change her point of view and soon she will get used to the atmosphere. If you notice her getting excited, order for a lap dance and watch her as she watches these women. If she likes the fun, she will opt to order for a dance for you. If she has ever fantasized about stripping in front of people, let her do it and she will love you for that.