Everything about flirting and being successful at it starts with the eye. The eyes are the first to see a person and to like what they see. It is the same eyes that can tell the other person that they like what they see. If you know how to use the eyes to communicate to people, you will find yourself with enough dates. It is the greatest weapon of flirting and depending with how you use them, they can be the best asset you can ever have. When flirting, it is important to keep the eye contact. They communicate a lot. When you spot someone in a room or somewhere, it is important that you make eye contact. Do not just look at them and leave it that, make sure you make a good eye contact and that you somehow make it known to them that you have seen them and that you like what you are seeing. The eye contact could take as little as a few seconds but within that time you should have been able to communicate what you want.

If you are so fascinated by what you are seeing and you are a woman, you feel you can not help it but make a long eye contact, do so in a sideways glance. This is because as much is it would look like you are flirting with the eyes but it will not be too obviously. It will also communicate to the other person that you are a shy person even though you are not and it will save you the embarrassment of the person finding out that you have no shame of staring. It is rude to stare, remember that ladies.

You can also look at the person from up to down and up. This will show the person you are looking at them and that you like them and you would like nothing more than to talk to them and get to tell them how you feel. The men are the ones who usually do a lot of up and down movement because they usually think in terms of sexual acts more than the women. When they look at you like this they are flirting and they are thinking it would be great to have a relationship with you, a sexual one sometimes but not necessarily. Make sure you make an eye contact before you perform the up and down movement.

Women who are flirting are more likely to butt their eye lids more often than they would while talking to you. If you notice a sudden change in the number of times the woman butts her eyes lids you should know that they are trying to flirt with you and you could be nice enough to flirt with her and see how she likes it. When she butts her eyelids she is communicating to you that she likes you and she wouldn’t mind if you communicated that you love her too. So next time you see some unusual activity with the eyes like butting of the eyelids, the sideways glance and the looking and the looking away of a person, you should know for sure that the person is using the eyes to flirt with you, make the necessary eye contact and flirt with them too.