Flirting is almost like a human instinct. It is like people were born with the flirting instinct and if you left a man and a woman in a room and they like each other they will flirt with each other to try and show the other that they are interested. However, this does not mean that every one can flirt successful. In fact there are some people who do not even have an idea of how to go about it. Before you start flirting make sure you get all the facts associate with flirting right or you will be sorry you even started flirting. Remember, flirting is supposed to be fun, so get rid of all the seriousness and enjoy a day of flirting.

Start flirting immediately you spot someone interesting and you would like to get to know them better. Start flirting by communicating with your eyes. If you see someone you would like to flirt with in a room, give them a lingering look. Make sure they see you looking at them and that when they look back at you; you give them an inviting smile. You can then proceed to move to where they are seated and engage yourselves in a nice conversation. If you are a woman, you can flirt with your eyes by butting your eye lids more times than you normally do. This way, the man will notice that you are flirting with them and hopefully, they will flirt right back and be the start of a wonderful relationship, who knows?

Start flirting by giving someone a compliment about something they have, be it the eyes, the clothes, jewelers or the perfume they are wearing. When the person thanks you for the compliment do not stop there especially if the person is friendly and welcoming. If you were complimenting them for a perfume ask them the name of the perfume and where they got it from. Ask them in a nice way of course. The same goes for the shoes or the dress and shirt. Do not give someone a compliment that you both know does not exist. Very few people pull those kinds of compliments whereby they compliment someone on something that they know the person does not have and lacks and get to go on a first date with the person. Some people do not get some jokes, so better safe than sorry.

Start flirting by dressing differently from what people are used to seeing you dress. For the men dress smartly, in clean pants and shirts that way, you are sure to catch some attention from the women, especially those who thought you looked sloppy. For the ladies, start flirting by showing some little skin. If you were dressing so conservatively, start dressing up in little revealing clothes. Show a little leg and a little back. This way, you are bound to attract someone to you and start flirting with them. Flirting is fun, get rid of your fears and start flirting today, you might get it wrong here and there but you will learn from you mistakes. Remember that people are born with flirting instincts its part of you. All you need is to perfect your skills.