One of the things we enjoy as women is to keep in close touch with the men we are dating. Given that the men usually think differently, we often find ourselves in a tricky position. While we would like to talk to our dates nearly all the time, they usually take things to the opposite end.

Perhaps you have been in quite a good relationship for some time and the guy seemed very thoughtful. Then all over sudden he appears to withdraw from the relationship. What should you do when that wonderful man cuts off his phone calls?

You should first of all be aware of some of the common reasons that prompt men to cut their phone calls in the first place.

Review your relationship

You should look back and find out exactly where your relationship really stands. The fact that you have gone out on just a couple of dates and you think things are heading in the right direction does not necessarily mean that he is thinking in the same lines as well.

The best thing to do is to go on with your normal life. In case the man cares about you, he will call you to strengthen the relationship. If he does not call at all then he has no interest, and you should not sacrifice your life for him.

Avoid making the first call

Although it is largely said that men would like us to be more aggressive, the fact is that they would still like to be in control of the relationship. When you give the impression that you are pursuing him, he is not likely to respond positively.

However, the matter is quite different in case you have been dating for a while and then he cuts off his communications. You should think clearly about the type of action you intend to take in such a situation. There are many reasons that make men to stop calling.

You are on test

One of the main things that make men stop calling is to try to gauge your reaction to such a move. This is one method that your man may use in order to determine your emotions, both in general and particularly how you view him.

Do not bother calling

Although there are high chances that you will feel like picking the phone and asking the man what he is up to, you should avoid taking the initiative. This may seem odd but it is the reasonable thing to do.