When a man and a woman get into a relationship, they feel as if everything is fine, and that no one can separate them at any point of time. Unfortunately, sometimes things go awry and they go their separate ways. Yet there may be still some lingering interest. Hence many women ask: "Why hasn't he called?"

Women are especially very much confused when their boyfriends stop calling. Whatever might be the reason, one question always clouds their minds, and that is: "Why hasn't he called?" She gets lost in the world of uncertainties and starts wondering what could have gone wrong with him. Only her boyfriend can clarify the real reason. However, there are some basic factors that can help you out.

What do men think about calling women?

There is basically a vast difference in the outlook of what men think about calling from what women think. On one hand, a woman feels good and elated to receive calls from a man she adores. She takes it personally, bonds emotionally and expects more and more calls from his side.

On the other hand, a man will call when he is lonely or maybe just to talk about their dating plans. For him, a call means just a mode of communication and nothing more.

When a woman receives a call from her man, she finds it very romantic and feels secured. So when he isn't calling, she feels her whole world collapsing, giving her a great sense of insecurity and frustration. She builds her whole life around the man and his calls, so when they stop, she is left in a vacuum. Understanding this basic concept will help you when you also ask: "Why hasn't he called?"

Men are multi-faceted

A woman thinks that her man is the biggest work she has and starts thinking of him each and every moment of her life. But men are different. For him, it's either work or leisure. So when he is held up at work his whole world vanishes as he gets fully immersed into his work.

A woman needs to understand this and wait patiently till he finds himself free. Many women start nagging their men by making frequent calls or sending text messages. Men get irritated by this, as they expect some privacy at times. No man likes a nagging girl friend trying to impress him all the time. He likes a woman who is very confident and can be decent enough to understand and wait until he has made up his mind.

Women generally unwittingly display their weaknesses for men by nagging or calling them too many times. What women forget is that a man likes an undiscovered and secret part in a woman which will always make him want her. So always have something in you that will instill curiosity in your man.

Understanding a man can be the only answer to your question, "why hasn't he called?" So understand and accept a man as he is.