Did you just have a big fight with your boyfriend or girlfriend and breakup? It's painful and confusing, but don't lose hope. If you're wondering how to stop a breakup I've got some advice that might surprise you. That's because, when it comes to love, what appears to be the right thing to do is often totally wrong.

For instance, after a breakup, most people want to call, e-mail, or text their ex. Don't! It's best to keep your feelings to yourself for now. Don't hound the other person-that will just push them further away. It may seem strange, but doing the opposite of what you feel like doing is often the right move!

So, how to get your ex back? First you should agree to a breakup. It might be difficult, but you need to give your ex some time and space without you. Once you're not around, I can guarantee that they'll begin to think of you in a more positive way. Finally, they'll begin to miss you.

Eventually, you and your ex will meet again and be able to talk with one another. And guess what? By following the advice above, you will have set the stage for a powerful re-connection.

This is just the beginning. There are many techniques that can fix a broken romance. Unfortunately, however, most people do and say the wrong things. Ever wonder why the divorce rate is so high?

What you need is a plan of action that's been proven to work. One of the most popular relationship books right now is called The Magic of Making Up. The author is not a relationship professional, but he's very gifted at reading people and knowing what makes them tick. Many of his techniques are unusual and even controversial. You won't read about them anywhere else. But they work!

A good relationship is too valuable to risk losing. It's amazing how so many people will drive away the very things they want the most. But you can avoid this mistake by following the advice in The Magic of Making Up. And this time, you'll make all the right moves!