Hot women or all around us. We see them at work, at the supermarket, at the doctors, at the ATM, at the gas station, in fact, it’s practically impossible to avoid them. Now, how many of these hot women do you approach for a date?

Did you know that 99% of men don’t approach these women? Why? Because they don’t think they have a chance. ‘She’s out of my league’ is a common phrase. The real truth is that it boils down to two things.

1. A lack of confidence that you are good enough to date her.

2. Not knowing what to say to her.

If you really think about it, I bet you can recount many occasions in your life when you have seen a hot babe with a none to hot man. How does he do it? Well he does the one thing that you so far haven’t done. He takes a chance. He believes in himself. He believes this is his one life and he is going to live it. What’s the worst that can happen? She’s not interested, so what, there’s plenty more fish in the sea.

A brilliant way to develop that confidence without spending tonnes of money and hours in counselling is to use simple affirmations. To understand what an affirmation is and how it works, let’s first look at what a belief is? A belief is a thought that we have thought over and over and over again until it no longer is just a thought, but something that we believe in. It’s this belief that makes it real.

This is exactly how affirmations work. Each day, maybe several times a day, we repeat a short sentence to ourselves that ignites a feeling and a mindset within us, which when repeated regularly enough, becomes who we are.

Some affirmations you may want to try are:

• "I am attractive to women"

• "I have a lot to say to women"

• "I am confident with women"

• "I am a fun and energetic guy"

• "woman are attracted to me"

Think about the areas where you feel or get nervous around women and come up with your own affirmation which are the complete opposite to your current belief. Remember, a belief is just a thought that you have been thinking over and over again until you begin to believe it.

Deciding that you like the look of women and mustering the confidence to approach her is the first step. The next step is engaging her in conversation and creating that sexual tension. This sexual tension is commonly know as flirting. The reason why flirting is important during your conversation with a woman is because it makes you both feel good and making a woman feel good is the only reason why when you ask her for her number she is going to give you the ‘real’ one. Whether you are short and stout or an Adonis.

There is a knack to flirting, but it’s easy to acquire and when you do, flirting becomes natural and effortless. And because flirting also makes you feel good, you’ll be flirting with every woman you meet, which means you’ll have the pick of the crop.