There's usually a thrill about meeting someone for the first time, usually after months of correspondence over the internet. It is easy to get caught up in the thrill and excitement of the moment and lose prospective on rationality. Even though free online dating has lead to many happy couples, you must always take safety precautions when meeting someone for the first time in real life.

Make plans to meet in a neutral place. Do not let your date pick you up from your home. Also, your date should not even know where you live as of yet! Public places are your best bet. Also stay near other people, and if possible make the occasion a double or group date.

Even though it may be gentlemanly of a man to offer to pay the bill, some men will expect something in return for dinner. In order to prevent any misunderstanding, offer to pay half of dinner. After all, this is the age of the independent woman!

Stay conscience and monitor your drinking. Alcohol is one of the biggest factors that will hinder someone's judgment when on a date. If you do decide to have a drink make sure you always have your eye on your drink. Never get drunk as to avoid any impairment on your judgment. You can even play it safe and avoid drinking in the first place.

When meeting your date for the first time, use your own transportation. Also make sure that you have a full tank of gas. Remember, these are measures to help keep you safe.

Anyone can put on a good act. Do not let your guard down because a man seems nice or says he is religious. This is your first time meeting him so you can not tell for sure if he is telling you the truth.

Remember to stay in public areas and never venture into secluded areas such as parks. If you do decide you want to see him again, repeat the same process. Meet in a public place, don't drink and use your own mode of transportation.

Instincts are usually right, that's why they are in place. So if something does not feel right than it most likely isn't. If you feel at the beginning of your date that something is not right, than leave instantly.

Free online dating has been a positive experience for many. Make your experience positive as well and stay safe. One last very important note is to always tell someone exactly where you will be when you go out on your date.