Have you ever wondered why single women out there date and go out regularly to find their perfect man, but always end up complaining and whining about how futile their efforts are? Well here’s a very important piece of dating advice for women- never date unless you are prepared. Getting ready to date is not about wearing the right dress that matches your shoes and purse. Dating is all about being mentally and emotionally prepared. If you are determined to find your Mr. Right, then you have to get yourself geared- up and be prepared for the good and bad consequences.

To help you out, here are some signs that you are ready to date.

• You believe that optimism plays a vital role in the dating field. Being bitter and negative will open doors for rejection.

• Even if some situation didn’t turn out well, you are determined to have a good time and make the most out of the situation.

• You know and believe that you are going to meet awesome and wonderful men.

• You believe that dating is fun.

• You are aware of individual differences and respect each person’s oddness.

• You are willing to look at the person skin deep. Yes, he may be bald or has the weirdest laugh you ever heard, but still you consider how chivalrous and sensible he is.

• You are ready to date when have totally moved on from your past relationship and you no longer curse and hex your ex.

• You no longer feel sorry about your failed relationship.

• You can honestly say to yourself that you are ready to love and be loved.

• You are mature enough to take the responsibilities of your actions. No blaming, no justifying.

• You don’t expect any man to complete you.

• You have a clear view of your limitations.

• You are aware that it’s no one’s job to make you happy.

• You know you are ready to date when you are not afraid to reject and get rejected.

• You know you are ready to date when you are ready to move on from a bad rendezvous, without taking it out on yourself.

When you decide to go out there and expect fruitful results, then you better have the right attitude for it. If you are going out with loads of negativity inside you, you will end up as somebody’s worst date. And we don’t want that. Remember, your thoughts dictate your actions. So get your act together and be the sought after woman in town!