You would think that knowing how to kiss should just come naturally to everyone, but real life would seem to indicate otherwise. While some of us may have been born naturally good kissers the truth is that most people have no clue what makes a good kisser and at some point have to be taught by someone who cares about them enough to tell them the truth.

Wouldn't it be better if you didn't have to go through the embarrassment of your boyfriend or girlfriend telling you that you're a bad kisser? I'm going to give you a few quick tips in this article that hopefully will improve you kissing skills rather quickly. They won't make you the best kisser on the planet but at least they can get you started in the right direction.

Since whether or not you're a good kisser is somewhat subjective on the part of the person you're kissing, the easiest thing to teach someone is how to be a good kisser as far as your immediate kissing partner is concerned. You can hone your overall kissing skills later.

First Kissing Tip - Follow The Leader

When showing physical affection to others we almost automatically do to the other person what we want done to us. People who hug, have a desire to be hugged, people with a firm handshake want a firm hand shake back. The same goes for kissing. Your partner is going to kiss you the way they want to be kissed. If you simply lie back a little and follow their lead, you can give back to them what they are giving you.

Second Kissing Tip - Notice The Feedback

Your partner is going to give you instant feedback on whether or not they like your kiss. You need to be open to picking up on it. If they seem to be trying escape the kiss, then you must assume your kissing is too aggressive. If they seem to be pulling you in closer then you're not giving them enough in the kiss. Adjust quickly to what feedback you're getting. You'll know when you get it right.

Third Kissing Tip - Get The Timing Right

The person that wants you to kiss them is going to be signaling for it. If you're already in a relationship you need to learn when they like to be kissed and when they don't. Kissing them at the right times is going to earn you all kinds of brownie points and will make your kisses even more special to them.

If this is a new relationship, look for body language like leaning towards you, staring into your eyes. Guys, if a girl has her face within a foot of yours and is looking directly in your eyes she wants you to kiss her. Do not hesitate and blow it. Ladies, if a guy is looking in your general direction and doesn't have mouthful of food, he wants you to kiss him. Okay, maybe that's a little too simple, but you get the picture. The key is not missing the opportunity. It might increase their desire to kiss you, but it might put them off. That's too big a risk to take.

Hopefully, I've gotten you pointed in the right direction as far as how to be a good kisser. I can't work miracles in such a short article but at least you're a little better off than you were to start. Give these tips a try.

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