Lately I've been noticing a lot of guys getting confused about what is really important when it comes to picking up women. This is very dangerous and can affect your overall game because when you spend too much time on things that don't matter... you are actually moving backward instead of forward.

If you are one of the many men who have been reading up and learning your seduction material yet have not yet seen any results, this may be the source of your problem.

I've put together a list of what I believe to be the most crucial skills that you must master to be successful with women. Here they are (in order of importance) :

Confidence - Everyone should already know that this is the #1 thing that women look for in men. It's more important than muscles, brains, money and everything else.

Flirting Skills - Even though you must learn to be care-free in order to become a good flirt, this skill must be taken very seriously... it can make your or break you!

Conversation Skills - I have never met a man that could get beautiful women interested in him without knowing how to talk to them. This is a detailed subject that I go over in my book.

Understanding Women - You can't hop in a helicopter, start pressing random buttons and expect not to crash. This works the same way : Learn what women are all about and how the operate and you'll always be successful with them.

Your Personality - Did you know that you can change and mold your personality into the type that women are uncontrollably attracted to? You can, and it can be a very useful asset to your game if you know how to use it.

Charisma - This is the skill that literally takes everything that you've learned about getting girls and pulls it all together... making it work. Needless to say, this is a necessity.

Fear Of Rejection - If you are afraid to approach girls you will definitely need to get that under control before anything else comes into play. However, this is a very common problem that many men face and it can be easily fixed... it's just a matter of knowing how.

Playing Hard To Get - This works wonders with women. When it comes to all of the sneaky little tricks that you can use to attract women, playing hard to get takes the cake every time. This is not a necessary skill, but it is still very important.

Eye Contact - There is a lot more to eye contact than you might think, and the difference between a man that can use it correctly to his advantage and one that can not is astounding.

Your Appearance - This is not as important as the rest of this list, but many girls are picky when it comes to how a man looks. However, you do not have to stay exactly how god made you, as there are many things that you can do to improve your physical appearance.

Well there you have it, the top ten things that you need to work on if you want to be able to pick up hot women. In my book "The Player's Black Book", each topic on this list has it's own chapter... so check out the book if you want to learn everything that there is to know about seducing women.