If you have ever been in a bad relationship where you were not thrilled, you have probably thought about how you got with this person in the first place. Maybe things were going good at the beginning of the relationship but suddenly something changed. This is not unusual and it in fact can happen to anyone at anytime in life.

At some point in the relationship you may have started to feel as if this is not, the right fit for your life. You may have found out that you can do better or that you are not just not happy with the choices that you have made and you now want to start fresh and find someone that you can share your life with in a positive way. This is not unusual and there is nothing wrong with feeling this way at all.

You deserve to be happy and this is the most important thing in the world that you can do for yourself.

There are ways that you can help yourself from falling for the wrong person in life. There is no need to stay with losers or people that make you feel bad about whom you are.

Get out of the rut and move on with your life in a more positive and happier outlook. Think about the laws of attraction and what you notice first about someone. These laws have been around for a long time and many people have lived by them. However, the important thing is to remember that you need to think about what you like in a person and what makes you happy.

Then you need to go out there and work on making it happen for you. Think about who you are and what you are doing in life. Do you think that you deserve good things in life? If you do then you, need to make it happen. Keep in mind that you attract WHO YOU ARE in life.

If you believe that you are not worthy of feeling happy and being with someone that can do this for you then you may need to work on your self esteem and change your way of thinking all together.

Know what you are looking for in a relationship. This can be any type of relationship. You do not only have to apply these rules to your love life but you should think about them when trying to find new friends.

You do not want to be around anyone that brings you down or makes you feel lower in your own self-esteem. You need to attract healthy and loving relationships that you can defiantly benefit from in a positive way.

Show others how you want to be treated. You need to show someone how you want to feel when you are around them and what you expect of the relationship. If you want to attract loving and kind people then you need to be the same way to others. You should give out compliments and help anyone whenever possible. This is going to make you feel good about yourself as well as show others how you want to be treated and what is important to you.

This is also going to be a great way to get others to respect you and this is the type of treatment and relationship that you deserve for sure.

Stay around positive people. Feed off their positive energy and keep away from the negative factors in your life. You want surround yourself with good thoughts and this will keep you motivated to keep the good people in your life and to weed out the bad.

You should also be grateful to others and yourself as well. Notice all of the good things about yourself and this will help you attract others that are feeling good and confident about them as well. This is going to make the relationship much easier and more positive for both involved.

Feeling good about yourself is going to spread to others and it is something that is going to work when you are trying to meet someone that you can feel good about.

You are going to have a positive reaction from others and this will help you stop falling for the wrong people and getting your life back on track so that you can find happiness.