Foster parenting is one of the most humane institutions this country has ever started. While the laws vary from state to state, it still is possible for someone who may feel so blessed in their own lives that they are willing to share their homes and their love with children that otherwise may not have had the opportunity for a stable home.

While the legal framework for adopting children can be quite convoluted, it still pays to be patient when waiting for a child to adopt, and a life to change. Many have found that patience in these circumstances can prove to be equally rewarding, and life-changing for them as well.

Why Be a Foster Parent

There are many reasons why one would even want to open their homes to a complete stranger. While altruism tops the list of reasons for providing one with a foster home, here are some other things foster parents gain from the experience.

1. Parenthood For Childless Couples – There have been couples that have always wanted children of their own – to care for, to love, and to live with. Unfortunately, not all couples are blessed in this way, as not all parents are gifted with fertility.

Adopting a foster child is one of the ways couples can fulfill their desire for children.

2. Companionship – Children are wonderful beings, they will love you unequivocally and want to be loved in return. Kids are lovely companions, and are loyal and in need of care. If you are looking for someone to care for, and who would care back, then adopting children makes good sense.

Adoptive children may, depending on their circumstance, have emotional problems due to past history. This is all the more the reason to adopt – only a stable family life, and a protective environment, can help these children come to grips with life, and have the opportunity to blossom and grow in their own lives.

These children will also add spice and happiness to a home that may be devoid of laughter and missing something. If you, as a family person, feel that there is a loneliness in your homes walls that can not be dispelled, then a child may bring joy back in to your home.

3. Altruism – Not all adopted children will arrive without some difficulty. It's important to remember that they may be from troubled or needy backgrounds. But, if you look closely into rough, sometimes rebellious eyes, you will find a child that is in sore need of love. And maybe yours could be the only means to break through the ice.

There can be no other joy greater than seeing a child bloom into maturity as a responsible, well-adjusted individual. A good family, and family life, is integral to that growth. Opening up your home to these children could be the breakthrough in their lives as your providing of a stable home can open the avenues that offer these children a second chance.