Many fall in love over money or how someone looks but most of the time that kind of love has no heart. When a person falls in love and I mean real love it isn't based on looks or how wealthy they are but for the person they are. Now when I say person they are I am mean the spirit of that person from the inside.

Cosmetic Love

When a person loves someone for what they have or even for how they look that is cosmetic love for they are in love of their outward appearance and not their inward appearance. This kind of love normally never last very long especially those who are in it to just be with a good-looking man or woman. Mostly because they later find out that they are ether abusive rather it is emotionally or physically and soon start looking for a way out.

However the ones who seek financially rich people can mean that they themselves have a low esteem of themselves. But when they to manage to hook up with a financially endowed partner, that kind of relationship can carry on for some time. Even when there is no real love there, theses type of people are hooked to the money that comes with that relationship and will not let go that easily. However there are those few people who are flat out Gold diggers and had planed it that way all along. These kinds of people only stay in hopes that their partner will soon kick the bucket and leave them the fortune, But in the end most of the people figure them out before it is to late.

The Real Love Birds

There are some real love seeking people out there that care less about money or even looks I know a few myself as matter of fact I wonder what my wife sees in me, But this story isn't about me but rather Identifying those kind of people.

A true love seeking will always be very protective of their heart for the most part if they have any experience, But there are those that leap right on in and later get hurt that's when those invisible walls go up. When they do find someone and then fall in love with that person they don't really care about looks for the most part but rather the love they receive in return. Later on that love turns into a relationship that they would like to share together for the rest of their life.

When this happens marriage in not far behind, however moving ahead and not looking back can become a scary task for many not knowing what's to come. This is where true love shows its colors. For many things happen in their lives such as hardships that can put a very hard toll on a relationship, for instance money is the most common of them all and I can bet most of you know about stress this is on a family or loved one.

Another hardship is if one becomes disabled, this can resort to where only one of them can work now and still have to care for the disabled partner after work, which can put a strain on him/her on a daily basis. There are some people it gets to the point that they just can't take it anymore and wind up leaving there spouse to defend for themselves. For the ones who stick with it, this develops into a stronger bond for both parties because it only strengthens the fact that they need each other even more so then most families.

There are people out there who will never experience real hardship and those who have never known any other way, but that is what makes us all different. Allot of times the hardship isn't from the lack of schooling or the lack of not working hard it just happen that way for many people. So when finding someone who will stick it out rather bad or good, rather living it up or struggling everyday of your life is a partner whom has a heart that has no boundaries.

These kind of people appreciate everything they have in life and seek n guarantees. Who are grateful for what god has provided, appreciate those that lend a helping hand along the way in most cases spins off new friendships.

Here is an example of this kind of love that allot of us would like to have for it takes a lot compassion to maintain a marriage for this long and to never ask something in return. I wrote this article as an example of this couples love for this story moved me and felt compelled to pass this along to others so they also could be reminded how real love has no boundaries. So please vote for them Because sometimes love starts with little gestures.

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