This article is a must read if you broke up with your boyfriend because of the most common reason – he has fallen in love with another girl! And even if he has not, in a blink of your eye you will see him with some pretty lass because this is how it all works! So, it is recommended that you give this a reading anyway.

You must have gone mad to decide on the right ways that can help you win him back. This is natural, but to succeed in your venture first stop worrying and relax! You might be absolutely dyeing to have him back in your life and you might be more than ready to do anything that will bring him back, but STOP! Never ever let him realize this. If you do, you ruin everything!

Go slow. If he doesn’t want to make a commitment, do not force him! Sort out things with patience. Don’t criticize his new girlfriend in front of him. This will unveil your intensions. Be a good listener and listen to whatever he has to say with absolute concentration but within yourself be confident about the fact that you have been with him for a long time and know him much better than this new girl. Use your experience to win him back.

For example, you would know how he wants his girl to dress up. Dress up that way and wear his favorite perfume whenever you go to a place where you are likely to meet him. Any other girl will have the disadvantage of not knowing his likes and dislikes and will soon be unable to compete with you!

If your boyfriend does not want to make a commitment but is willing to keep the avenue for friendship open, do not feel disheartened at all! This means your boyfriend has not yet got over all the attachment with you and is not ready to do without you! So, make the best use of this opportunity. If he is willing, go jogging with him or go for a dinner now and then or such other things which friends do.

While you do these things do not bring up serious issues and make the atmosphere stiff. Also, don’t show him that you are upset. Just have some fun and more importantly let him enjoy whatever little time he spends with you.

This will soon make his girlfriend jealous which is likely to urge her to take some wrong steps and end up in a quarrel and fight with him. With frequent clashes, their relationship will weaken, whereas you with all the fun and enjoyment that you bring will be like a breath of fresh air! He will soon realize how important you are in his life and your man will soon be yours again!